When you are in a meeting there are always people who tend to dominate the conversations. You find that most people will just sit there and listen and not participate. Why do some people not speak out but others easily speak up?
Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.
One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.
I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.
You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.
Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.
A lot of this can be related to their upbringing. If they were raised in a dynamic family where there were strong personalities, they will have these characteristics as well. If their upbringing was more relaxed they will be more laid back as well.
Some family members will even have stronger personalities than others. Generally speaking, older siblings are more dominant over younger ones. When parents ask older children to watch over younger children, it might put them in a position of dominance. This persists throughout the life of each sibling.
Your development is as shaped by your school environment. Early in your schooling the more dominant people will lead while the more quiet personalities will follow. There are levels of leading. Some people will lead in all areas while others will lead in some situations and be more laid back in others. Unless you make changes, the role you take in school will follow you throughout life.
If you have a tendency to be reserved and laid back, you can learn to be more adventurous. You might need to adopt a more dominant position for it. People who are not accustomed to your behaviour may find this shocking. You can even feel surprised by the shift.
Take things slowly if you intend to alter and be more brave. This will assist you in adjusting to internal changes. Additionally, it will be simpler for others to accept the new you. If you try to overwhelm them with your improvements, you can encounter resistance that makes progress more difficult.
Start spending time with people who already act in this way if you wish to be more adventurous. They will give you indications, so pay attention to how they behave. When you feel comfortable doing so, make an effort to combine those qualities. Strong personalities can be questioned and probed as to how they came to be the way they are once you get close enough. These are the people who are willing to brag about their lives. This class is a fantastic opportunity to learn how to be more adventurous.
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Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.
Nothing happens until action is taken.
To your success.
Michael.
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