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Making Life Coaching Work

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“The greatest deception men suffer is from their own opinions.” – Leonardo Da Vinci

We all sometimes feel that life is not unfolding as it should. It is possible that we just don’t understand all the things that are in our way of reaching our goals and success.

The article below gives some information on what a life coach is and how they can help you.

To discuss what a life coach can do for you and to schedule a session with Michael, use the contact form below.

Michael is a certified Life Optimization coach as well as a Law of Attraction and Law of Attraction Wealth coach.

Michael Wilkovesky

Life Coaching: What it is & How to Make it Work for You – Coach Guerci

Have you ever felt as if your life lingered in a permanent state of confusion? Are you trapped in a constant state in which you don\’t know where you are going, what you are doing, or what your priorities are? Many people grapple with highly destructive, near-paralyzing inner dialogue and overall outlook on a daily basis. They do not understand themselves and their talents. They have no real goals, or they do not know how to attain goals that they have set. Life coaching can help anyone who feels that they can benefit from some assistance in finding direction in their life.

What Does A Life Coach Do?
A life coach will help you restructure your thinking and goals, in order to let you take charge of your own life. They can help you to take a look the direction in which you are going and decide what steps you need to take to improve your life situations. A life coach is not an instructor, telling you exactly what you have to do, but rather a mentor who can help you to determine the best paths.

Expertise and services that most life coaches provide to clients include:
– Long and short-term goal setting
– Insightful dialogue and guidance for the resolution of personal problems
– Development of strategies for attainment of goals
– Dialogue that assists client identify and understand his/her own needs and wants dialogue that fosters an understanding of the role wants/needs should play in relationships
Impartial, but sympathetic, opinions and advice, when needed and warranted

There may be many other benefits for each individual who chooses to use a life coach. It all depends on what you and your coach determine are your goals and desires. There is no cut-and-dried formula to the process of coaching. Everything is an individually tailored experience, designed around the client, their needs and goals, and their personality.

Are You A Good Candidate For Life Coaching?
Life coaching can be a positive experience for anyone who wants to make changes in their life. However, you must be at a point where you can be cooperative and ready for change. You should be able to take friendly criticism and suggestions and commit to following through with the plans that you develop with your coach. Be prepared to share those difficult personal issues and admit to your own faults and weaknesses. A life coach has no magic wand that will transform your future, however they can help you to obtain the tools needed to find the answers and solutions you are seeking for life’s problems and challenges.

If you are ready to take a step forward in your life, consider a life coach. They will become an invaluable resource to you in your quest to live out your hopes and dreams. Take the initiative to partner with a coach to discover who you are, what your goals are, and how to obtain them. No matter where you are on your journey, you can always make the rest of the ride a bit smoother and more enjoyable by finding purpose and direction.

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About the Author

For over 15 years, Coach Jim Guerci has focused his entire agenda around helping people create lush lives of peak performance, academic excellence, and spiritual awareness. Coach Jim Guerci is an acclaimed Master NLP Practitioner, Certified NLP Hypnotherapist, and life coach who has been helping individuals make effective life changes for over fifteen years. Visit Coach Guerci’s websites http://www.peakperformanceguy.com

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Do You Compromise In Your Life?

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“The future depends on what we do in the present.” – Mahatma Gandhi

At some point in our lives we have all compromised. We do things that we really didn’t want to do. The past is past, but we can change our future.

The article below outlines some things we can do to reverse this action in the future.

To discuss what a life coach can do for you and to schedule a session with Michael, use the contact form below.

Michael is a certified Life Optimization coach as well as a Law of Attraction and Law of Attraction Wealth coach.

You can also view posts on life coaching at http://lifeimprovementbooks.wordpress.com

Michael Wilkovesky

How To Stop Compromising – by Matthew Ferry

Do you find yourself always saying ‘yes’ to other people’s requests? Are you up to your eyes doing errands for others because you just cannot turn them down and say ‘no’? Looking back on your life and the decisions you made in the past, Have you pursued a path – career or personal – that was different from what you wanted simply because that’s what was expected of you? If you answered yes to the above then you, and several hundreds of thousands of people in this world, have a stronger than normal desire to please others over yourself. It is a common ‘malady’ (for lack of a better term) that, if kept unchecked, may lead to dissatisfaction later life. However, there is a way to control the urge to please – and the first step towards being liberated from this desire is to understand its roots. To be aware of how it started. Once this has been identified, the next steps would be easier to do.

Wanting to constantly please everyone may have reared its head during your teenage years. Not during childhood – as most children seem to want to do the opposite of what’s expected of them. Its during the critical prepubescent and teenage period that fitting in – or being with the in-crowd becomes very important. At this stage, you probably did things simply because you wanted others (the cheerleaders, the varsity team, the cliquish group) to like you. Never mind if it’s not who you are – what mattered most (at that time) was that you were well liked. And somehow, this erroneous belief continued well through your collegiate years, and on to your professional career.

Now that you are aware of the root of this “pleasing” issue, you would be in control and have more power to say ‘no’ to requests where you (normally) would have compromised on what you want, in order to be ‘liked’ or simply to please someone (or everyone).

What do you do now, about the compromises you have done in the past? Well, it’s no use crying over spilled milk so the best alternative is to accept that you have compromised on some aspects of your life, and to try to find a silver lining in the cloud of ‘regret’. Try to find a hidden benefit or value that you have gained by making those so-called ‘wrong choices’. Surely you benefited out of it – somehow. You may have learned a new skill, discovered something valuable about yourself, made new friends – identify these. No matter how small, or seemingly insignificant these may be – these helped shape you to be the person you are now – and that’s important.

There’s a French proverb that states: “The art of pleasing is the art of deceiving” and it is true: you deceive them, and yourself. So put an end to this vicious cycle of wanting to please others before yourself. Be aware of the root, be aware that you can say ‘no’, and be aware of the benefits your past actions have given you. Once you become aware of these, you’ll learn to be flexible and soon new horizons and other options will arise that will strengthen and empower you.

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Matthew Ferry a Life Coach,The Life Coaching Company Matthew Ferry International offers life coaching programs, law of attraction and dozens of training products and seminars relating to the law of attraction to help you find your passion and love your life.

 

A Life Coach Can Help You to Produce Great Results

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“The very things we wish to avoid, neglect and flee from turn out to be the ‘prima materia’ from which all real growth comes.” – Andrew Harvey

Many top production brokers and real estate agents use or have used a life coach.

The article below gives some reasons why these top producers felt the need to have a life coach guide them in their success.

To discuss what a life coach can do for you and to schedule a session with Michael, use the contact form below.

Michael is a certified Life Optimization coach as well as a Law of Attraction and Law of Attraction Wealth coach.

Michael Wilkovesky

Why Top Producers Achieve Stellar Results With Life Coaching – by Life Coaching Expert

When you meet those top producing brokers and realtors who seem to have it all – you know what I am talking about – those people who have a great life, great vacations, loving family relationships, sweet investments and luck on top of all that, you might look further and see that person in a life coaching program. Top producers who are committed to having a fulfilling experience in life may have gotten some of the wind beneath their wings in a life coach program.

Now, many of the top salespeople I have worked with don’t care about having a fulfilling experience. They care about winning. They care about awards. They care about the juice, the next sale, the win. But then what happens to their lives?

After coaching 8,273 salespeople, with many top producing realtors among them, I began to see the ‘the win at all costs’ mentality. And I began to notice others who win and experience fulfillment in other areas of their lives as well. What a difference.

Top sales people who focus only on the wins, the next deal, the bigger deal, often find themselves out of touch with the very aspect of their lives that they told themselves they were winning for.

Top sales people often find they win the deals at the expense of their family. They are winning but are they really losing touch with their children or their family? Or have they forgotten about health? Or maybe they are winning but their emotional life is a wreck.

Now, a top producer can take comfort in the glory of the win. Except when winning costs the experiences of family, of joy, of travel, of spiritual growth – then it can be a bittersweet victory.

I would like to bring to you another entirely amazing side of humanity. Top salespeople who want it all can indeed begin to experience life that is completely and wholly successful – because these individuals stop and recognize that being a great producing broker and a terrible dad is a hollow victory. And it wouldn’t be much fun to be a great sales person in the hospital on the second triple bypass heart surgery.

What if instead a life coach could help you achieve victory across many different aspects of yourself? Nearly all great sales people who experience life to the very fullest take advantage of life coaching. Here is what I want to share with you today. When you get everything into balance, when you are working on every aspect of your life, it’s as if you have a magic wand that enables you to get things done that other people cannot possibly get done. You can accomplish a lot more in much shorter periods of time.

People who live in balance achieve at an extremely intensified rate. When other people put in one and receive one, those individuals who are firing on every level of their being – mental, physical, spiritual, financial, all of the areas of value in their lives – can actually put in one ounce of ‘effort’ to receive 10 times the results. When you are operating on all cylinders, you will feel completely at ease and in control – as you embrace more success than you have ever experienced. This is why life coaching is taking off. Work on your entire life, and experience results across all of the disciplines. It’s worth the trip.

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Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course of Matthew Ferry.

Do You Really Need a Life Coach?

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“If you put yourself in a position where you have to stretch outside your comfort zone, then you are forced to expand your consciousness.” – Les Brown

Many people believe that they can handle the changes and the outcomes to their lives by themselves and do not need any assistance or guidance.

The article below outlines some of the reasons why people choose to use a life coach.

To discuss what a life coach can do for you and to schedule a session with Michael, use the contact form below.

Michael Wilkovesky

Why People Need A Life Coach? by Jemiel Simundo

Why do people need a life coach? This is what everyone is thinking about after it became popular and research showed that people with life coaches are often more successful than those without one. They can help you along the way by determining what goals you want to achieve and guide you through step by step. Life coaches are now popular with artists, athletes and even businessmen. They hire life coaches so that they can improve themselves at their chosen careers and will not go down the wrong path which could ruin their life and their career.

So what are the reasons why a life coach can help you be successful in your chosen goal?

People tend to get lazy, they are hard to get motivated and some people might agree with the famous saying “old habits die hard”, because of the fact that quitting a habit is hard to do. Some of these habits include smoking, drinking, gambling, playing video games, watching television, and others which can be a nuisance in our daily life. That’s why most successful people or people who have some personality issues they need to change hire a life coach in order for them to be successful at their chosen goal. It’s much more effective to have someone to be accountable to. The life coach will help you to be committed to a certain goal and they also encourage you along the way. They are like cheerleaders, cheering you on towards your goal. They keep you on track on your progress and compliment you on what you have achieved.

Life coaches and baseball coaches or boxing coaches are one in the same only in a different field. They show you how to be successful and will stick with you throughout the process. They will give you tips and tricks on how to manage the game, how to improve your skills in order to excel on the chosen sport you wanted, as for a life coach, they give you tips on how to manage your time, your priorities, and most of all they help you adjust on the changes that you wanted in your life to become happier and healthier. Life coaches will give you honest feedback, unlike your friends who will try not to hurt your feelings and therefore lie to you. A life coach can give you an objective educated opinion on what is needed to happen in order for you to reach your goals.

By hiring a life coach you need to be committed. Paying for a life coach’s services is not cheap. Therefore, you need to be serious in hiring a life coach and also be committed for you to get somewhere you want to and achieve the goals you wanted in life. You also need to consider that you may have to check the life coach you are hiring first. Look for a life coach that does not force you to do something that he wants but just following the things that you want to do and make a plan to make it happen.

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Jemiel writes for Los Angeles Life Coach

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