How To Gain Confidence In Your Own Abilities And Instincts

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confidence in own abilitiesGaining confidence in your own abilities and instincts is key to achieving your best potential and the greatness that lies within you. You need to be able to trust yourself and your skill set in order to handle life’s challenges well and also be seen as someone who can make a positive difference and/or impact in people’s lives. If you don’t have confidence in your own abilities and instincts, others won’t either, and you will always hold yourself to reaching your best potential and ability in life. Therefore, it is vital you gain confidence in your own abilities and instincts to reach your greatest potential; learn how to gain that confidence below.

To gain more confidence in your own abilities and instincts, first, look back upon the successes you’ve had in your life. This can be doing well in a course, getting your first job, being hired in the working world for the first time as a professional, etc. Look back at any and all of these successes and realize that you have the ability to achieve great successes and accomplishments, and you have already achieved several, even if you don’t think about them often. This can increase your confidence that you have what it takes to succeed in this world and need to trust those skills and instincts more.

Second, you need to be willing to try new tasks and activities. This will increase your skill set and enable you to gain confidence in you handling a wide variety of situations and challenges. By experiencing the feeling of handling a new task or activity well, you will gain confidence in your abilities and instincts to handle various situation.

Third, talk with family, friends, and/or colleagues about what you have done. You could mention that you are having some doubts or difficulties about your own abilities and are wondering if you can handle the situation you need to handle. Chances are high that these people can remind you of your skills and abilities to handle challenges and that you are up to the current task you are taking on. Sometimes, it can benefit us to hear from other people how much confidence they have in us and our abilities because you’re hearing it from an outside source who has seen you perform in various situations, which will give you the confidence and belief that you have the abilities and instincts to handle various situations you will encounter in life.

To your success

Michael W

Michael W

 

 

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4 Things You Can Do To Fix Your Confidence Level

Some Quick Fixes To Cure Your Confidence

You feel that your confidence is lagging behind today and you need to pick it up quickly.

Here are some things that you can do right away to get your confidence back up to its proper level.

1. Be in charge of your thoughts at all times.

What is a thought?

It’s just a question that you’ve asked yourself and the thought is you’re answer.

If you’re thinking negative thoughts, you’re probably asking a negative question.

Change the questions to be more positive.

2. Whenever you feel a negative thought coming, STOP, THINK, and say is this really important in the grand scheme of things.

A lot of the time it isn’t.

Many people in life major in minor things!

3. Do you let the words of others affect you?

Do you mind what they think of you?

Remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

It’s not what they say to you that’s the problem it’s what you say to yourself after they have stopped talking that’s the problem.dence

Change the way you think.

4. List the words that you use on a consistent basis when you feel let down or annoyed.

People use different words to mean the same thing and depending upon the intensity of the word – this will have an effect on your confidence.

Instead of saying “I’m enraged about this” say,

“I’m a little annoyed”.

Make a substitute list for the words that you use.

Make sure they are lower in intensity and then use them.

You’ll be surprised with the results.

Keep yourself confident and life becomes easier.

To your success.

Michael W

Michael W

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