Strategies To Handle Ego Issues in Your Life

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Cracking the Ego Code

Remember Dwight Schrute from The Office? His ego was as big as his beet farm. While it was hilarious on TV, in real life, an overblown ego can be as tricky as navigating a minefield. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back. Let’s take a look at some strategies to keep your ego in check and boost your personal prowess.


Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.


Dealing with Your Ego:

  1. Self-Awareness is Key: Ever tried to find a destination without a map? That’s what life is like without self-awareness. Get to know yourself better. Read up on psychology, reflect on your choices, and understand your motivations.
  2. Listen Up: Don’t let your ego deafen you to valuable feedback. Drop your defences and listen. You might just learn something.
  3. Take the Plunge: Comfort zones are cozy, but they can also be cages. Break free by taking calculated risks.
  4. Run Your Own Race: Life isn’t a competition. Focus on outdoing your past self, not others.
  5. Build True Confidence: Masking insecurities with arrogance is like putting a band-aid on a bullet wound. Be realistic about your strengths and limitations. Set meaningful goals and strive to reach them.
  6. Lend a Hand: Don’t let your ego make you self-absorbed. Give back to your community and use your network to help others.

Dealing with Ego in Others:

  1. Keep Your Cool: Remember, dealing with egoistic individuals isn’t personal. Try to see the humour in the situation.
  2. Stick to Facts: Clear, direct communication is your best bet. Use precise language that conveys certainty.
  3. Acknowledge Others: Show empathy by paraphrasing their words back to them. It shows you’re listening and that their message is getting through.
  4. Ask for Help: Let others know you value their talents and skills. Cooperation is key to achieving team goals.
  5. Validate, Don’t Validate: Show compassion without agreeing with their conduct.
  6. Stand Your Ground: Don’t be a doormat. Stand up for your principles and set boundaries.
  7. Choose Your Company Wisely: Spend time with those who respect you and energize you.

Remember, a big ego isn’t a sign of strength, but a mask for insecurity. A little humility can go a long way in making you more successful and popular. So, take control of your ego before it takes control of you. Let’s get to work!


To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.book nowDon’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program.

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

 

 

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