Procrastination often stems from an emotional response rather than sheer laziness. When you think about certain tasks—like going to the gym, doing your taxes, or making an uncomfortable phone call—you might feel a wave of dread or discomfort. This emotional response is your brain’s way of trying to protect you from experiencing something unpleasant.
However, you have the power to choose your actions, regardless of how you feel. While it may not be easy to take on tasks that make you uncomfortable, it’s entirely possible—and often necessary.
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Procrastination doesn’t make the task go away; it only adds to the stress over time. Eventually, the discomfort of putting it off becomes greater than the discomfort of just getting it done. So, why not save yourself the extra anxiety and tackle it now?
While there are moments when procrastination might be harmless, more often than not, it’s better to act sooner rather than later.
Here are some effective strategies to help you beat procrastination:
1. Tune into the Physical Sensation: When you anticipate doing something you’d rather avoid, notice how it feels in your body. Where do you feel that discomfort? Is it in your stomach, chest, or somewhere else?
- Focus on this sensation and observe it closely. Notice how long it lasts and what happens to it over time.
- By becoming aware of how these feelings fade, you’ll find it easier to manage or even dismiss them in the future.
2. Break the Task into Manageable Steps: Sometimes, the sheer size of a task can be intimidating. Look for ways to simplify or break it down.
- Can you tackle a small portion each day?
- Is there a tool or resource that could make the job easier?
- Could you delegate or hire someone to help?
3. Reward Yourself Afterward: Give yourself something to look forward to once the task is done. It could be as simple as enjoying an ice cream, getting a massage, or indulging in a good book. Rewards can be powerful motivators.
4. Visualize the Relief of Completion: Think about how good you’ll feel once the task is behind you. The sense of accomplishment and relief often outweighs the temporary discomfort of the task itself.
- Instead of dwelling on how difficult it might be, focus on the satisfaction and freedom you’ll experience once it’s done.
5. Start with a Small Commitment: Plan to work on the task for just five minutes. Give yourself permission to stop after that if you want. Often, the hardest part is just getting started, and once you do, you may find it easier to keep going.
6. Ask for Help: Do you have someone who can lend a hand? Having company can make even the most unpleasant tasks more bearable. Invite a friend, or better yet, gather a group to make the task quicker and more enjoyable.
7. Push Through with Determination: Some tasks simply need to be done, no matter how much you’d rather avoid them. Channel your inner strength, face the challenge head-on, and just get it done.
Everyone feels the temptation to procrastinate. What sets successful people apart is their ability to overcome this urge.
Procrastination is usually about avoiding discomfort, but there are ways to reduce that discomfort and make it easier to take action. Focus on the benefits of completing your tasks, get them done, and then treat yourself to a well-deserved reward. You’ll feel a lot better once it’s over.
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To your success.
Michael
P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance
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