Have you ever wondered if others see talents in you that you’ve overlooked? Sometimes, the people closest to us — our family and close friends — can recognize strengths and abilities that we fail to notice in ourselves. Asking for their perspective might be the key to uncovering hidden passions and pursuing a more fulfilling path.
We often think we know ourselves better than anyone else, but that’s not always true. Our daily routines and self-perceptions can blind us to certain traits or skills we possess. Family members and friends, however, observe us in different contexts and with fresh perspectives. They may notice how naturally you solve problems, organize events, or bring people together. These are strengths that might feel ordinary to you but stand out as exceptional to them.
Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.
One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.
I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.
You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.
Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.
You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life.
The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download
Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.
If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.
The idea of seeking input from others can feel vulnerable. What if they point out flaws instead of strengths? What if their suggestions don’t align with your self-image? While these concerns are valid, they’re often outweighed by the benefits. This exercise isn’t about agreeing with everything they say — it’s about gaining insights that broaden your understanding of yourself.
When you approach your family or close friends, start with open-ended questions. Rather than asking, “What am I good at?” try framing it as, “What do you think I do well that others might not notice?” This phrasing encourages thoughtful, specific responses rather than generic answers. Be prepared for answers that may surprise you. They might highlight a skill you take for granted or suggest a path you’ve never considered.
One powerful example of this comes from a successful entrepreneur who discovered her passion for baking through a simple conversation with her family. Growing up, she often baked for special occasions, but she considered it just a hobby. When her brother mentioned how her baking brought the family together and suggested she start a bakery, it sparked an idea. Today, she owns a thriving business that combines her love of baking with her natural ability to connect with people.
It’s important to approach this exercise with an open mind. Even if the feedback seems unexpected or unrelated to your current goals, consider how it might fit into your life. The key is to see patterns in what people tell you. If multiple people highlight your creativity or your ability to stay calm under pressure, those are strengths worth exploring further.
Feedback from others doesn’t have to dictate your path. Instead, use it as a guide to complement your self-reflection. Consider it one piece of the puzzle in understanding what makes you unique. You can also balance this external input with assessments like personality tests or journaling to create a fuller picture of your strengths and passions.
Actionable Step:
Choose three people you trust — family members, close friends or mentors — and ask them what they believe your greatest strengths are. Record their answers, looking for common themes or surprising insights. Then, reflect on how these observations align with your current interests or goals.
This process can be transformative. When you view yourself through the lens of others, you often gain a fresh appreciation for qualities you’ve taken for granted. You might discover that your ability to teach, empathize or innovate is something truly special.
Sometimes, the people closest to us see our potential more clearly than we do. They’re witnesses to our achievements, habits and even quirks that might point toward a passion waiting to be explored. Trusting their perspective, even just a little, can help illuminate a path that feels authentic and exciting.
Your journey to finding passion doesn’t have to be a solo endeavour. By seeking input from those who know and care about you, you not only strengthen your self-awareness but also deepen your connections with them. The insights they share might just lead you to a passion or purpose you’d never considered before.
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Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.
Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.
Nothing happens until action is taken.
To your success.
Michael
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P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life.
The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download
Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.
P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.
