Seven Powerful Ways to Boost Self-Esteem

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Self-esteem plays a crucial role in shaping our happiness, success and overall well-being. When our self-esteem is low, we become more susceptible to self-doubt, anxiety and even depression. On the other hand, when we cultivate a strong sense of self-worth, we are more confident in our abilities, more resilient in the face of challenges and more open to opportunities.


Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance


Many people recognize the importance of self-esteem but struggle with how to improve it. Fortunately, self-esteem is not something we are simply born with — it can be developed and strengthened with the right mindset and habits. In this article, we explore seven powerful ways to boost self-esteem and create a healthier, more positive self-image.

1. Play to Your Strengths

One of the best ways to improve self-esteem is to focus on your strengths rather than dwelling on perceived weaknesses. Too often, we define ourselves by what we lack — whether it’s a certain body type, a specific career or financial stability. However, these external factors do not define who we truly are.

How to Identify and Leverage Your Strengths:

  • Make a List of Your Strengths: Write down all your talents, skills and positive qualities. If you’re struggling, ask trusted friends or family members for their perspective.
  • Recognize What Makes You Unique: What sets you apart? Are you compassionate, creative or a great problem solver? Embrace these qualities and use them to your advantage.
  • Engage in Activities That Make You Feel Strong: Do things that highlight your abilities, whether it’s mentoring someone, painting, writing or excelling in a sport.

By shifting your focus from what you lack to what you excel at, you build confidence and reinforce your self-worth.

2. Lay Down Your Burdens

Negative thoughts and worries can consume us, making our problems feel larger than they really are. Holding onto self-doubt and insecurities prevents us from moving forward.

How to Release Negativity:

  • Write It Down: Spend a few minutes each day writing out your worries, fears or self-critical thoughts. Once they’re on paper, they often lose their grip on your mind.
  • Let It Go: Imagine placing your burdens into a box and setting them aside. This mental exercise can help create emotional distance from negative thoughts.
  • Challenge Negative Beliefs: Ask yourself if these thoughts are facts or just assumptions. Often, self-doubt is rooted in unfounded fears.

Practising these techniques regularly will help you free yourself from unnecessary emotional weight and make room for positive self-beliefs.

3. Be True to Yourself

Many people struggle with self-esteem because they try to live up to the expectations of others rather than pursuing what truly makes them happy. Whether it’s societal pressures, family expectations or the opinions of friends, allowing others to dictate your path can lead to frustration and self-doubt.

How to Stay True to Your Own Goals:

  • Define Your Own Success: What do you really want in life? Base your goals on your passions and interests, not what others think is best for you.
  • Set Personal Goals: Instead of following someone else’s dream, pursue what excites you. When you achieve personal milestones, your confidence will grow.
  • Trust Your Instincts: You are the best judge of your own happiness. Make choices based on your values and desires, not external pressures.

By being authentic and aligning your life with your true self, you will build genuine self-esteem rather than seeking validation from others.

4. Become a Positive Person

The way we think and speak about ourselves and others has a profound impact on our self-esteem. Negative thoughts and words reinforce low self-worth, while positive reinforcement strengthens confidence.

How to Cultivate Positivity:

  • Practice Gratitude: Focus on what’s going well in your life rather than what’s lacking.
  • Pass on Compliments: If you hear something positive about someone, share it with them. Lifting others up creates a cycle of positivity that benefits both parties.
  • Speak Kindly About Yourself: Instead of criticizing yourself, practice affirmations such as “I am capable,” “I am worthy,” and “I deserve happiness.”

When you focus on the positive, you naturally develop a healthier self-image.

5. Take Risks and Try New Things

Confidence grows when we step outside our comfort zone. The more we challenge ourselves, the more we realize what we are capable of.

How to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone:

  • Learn a New Skill: Take up a hobby, enrol in a class or try something unfamiliar. Every new skill strengthens self-confidence.
  • Face Your Fears: If you’re afraid of public speaking, practice in front of a small group. If you fear rejection, start small by initiating conversations.
  • Celebrate Every Effort: Even if you don’t succeed on the first try, recognize that taking action is an accomplishment in itself.

Risk-taking fosters resilience, and with each new challenge, self-esteem naturally grows.

6. Discount Negative Influences

Many of our negative self-perceptions come from external influences — society, the media or even people close to us. It’s crucial to filter out negativity and focus on sources that uplift and empower.

How to Protect Your Self-Esteem from Negativity:

  • Be Selective About Your Social Circle: Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who encourage your growth.
  • Limit Exposure to Harmful Media: Advertisements and social media often promote unrealistic ideals. Remember that these images are often curated and edited.
  • Reject Harmful Opinions: Just because someone says something negative about you doesn’t make it true. Base your self-worth on your own beliefs, not others’ judgments.

Taking control of what influences you can significantly improve your self-esteem and mental well-being.

7. Take Small Steps Toward Growth

Improving self-esteem is a process, and small achievements can lead to big transformations. Each step forward reinforces a sense of competence and confidence.

How to Build Self-Esteem Gradually:

  • Set Small, Achievable Goals: Instead of overwhelming yourself with big changes, focus on small wins.
  • Acknowledge Progress: Even minor improvements are worth celebrating.
  • Be Patient with Yourself: Growth takes time. Keep moving forward, even if progress feels slow.

By consistently taking small steps, you create a strong foundation for lasting self-esteem.

Conclusion

Self-esteem is not built overnight, but with consistent effort and the right mindset, it can be improved. By focusing on your strengths, letting go of negativity, being true to yourself, fostering positivity, taking risks, filtering out negative influences and making gradual progress, you can develop unshakable self-worth.

Start applying these seven strategies today, and watch your confidence and happiness grow.


To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

 

 

 

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Why Embracing Change is Essential

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Change is inevitable. Whether we like it or not, life constantly shifts, bringing new experiences, challenges and opportunities. Yet, many people resist change, fearing the unknown or preferring the comfort of familiarity. The problem? Avoiding change can lead to stagnation, missed opportunities and an inability to adapt in an ever-evolving world.


Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.


Instead of resisting change, imagine what would happen if you embraced it. By shifting your mindset, you can turn change into a powerful tool for growth, success and self-improvement.

How Embracing Change Benefits You

Change isn’t just something to endure — it’s something to embrace. Here’s how adapting to change can improve your confidence, productivity and overall quality of life.

1. You Become Comfortable with the Unknown

One of the biggest reasons people fear change is fear of the unknown. It’s natural to feel uneasy when faced with uncertainty. However, when you embrace change, you train yourself to navigate uncertainty with courage and confidence.

  • Instead of fearing what’s next, treat it like an adventure. Think of change like an Indiana Jones expedition — you may not know what’s around the corner, but it’s sure to be interesting.
  • Confidence grows when you learn to adapt to uncertainty. The more you face the unknown, the more comfortable you become with life’s unpredictability.

2. You Learn Something New

Every change — big or small — presents a learning opportunity. When your circumstances shift, you are pushed to acquire new skills, gain new perspectives and expand your knowledge.

  • Learning keeps your mind sharp and engaged.
  • Change often introduces new people, cultures and ideas that can enrich your life.
  • The more you learn from change, the more capable and adaptable you become.

By embracing change as an opportunity to grow, you turn challenges into stepping stones for success.

3. Change Increases Efficiency

Though change may initially seem disruptive, it often leads to greater efficiency and productivity — especially in a professional setting.

  • Companies implement new strategies, tools or systems to streamline operations and improve results.
  • Individuals who adapt quickly to changes at work often become more valuable employees and stronger leaders.

If you remain open to change, you’ll likely discover smarter ways to work and live, making your day-to-day life easier and more productive.

4. A New World of Opportunities Opens Up

Some of the most incredible experiences in life happen because of change. Whether it’s a career shift, a move to a new city or an unexpected challenge, change often reveals opportunities we couldn’t have imagined.

  • A job loss may lead to an even better career opportunity.
  • A relationship ending may open the door to self-discovery and personal growth.
  • Moving to a new place may introduce you to lifelong friendships and new passions.

When you accept change, you stop limiting yourself to one rigid path and instead open yourself up to endless possibilities.

5. Change Builds Confidence

Handling change successfully is a confidence booster. Every time you adapt to a new situation, you prove to yourself that you are capable, resilient, and strong.

  • Look back on past challenges. Think about a time when you faced a difficult change — did you come out stronger? Chances are, you did.
  • Recognize that the more changes you navigate, the more confidence you build for future transitions.

Instead of fearing change, view it as an opportunity to prove your strength and adaptability.

6. Change Sparks Motivation

Routine can sometimes lead to boredom and stagnation. When life becomes predictable, motivation can fade. Change, however, has a way of reigniting your drive and enthusiasm.

  • New challenges push you to level up your skills and think creatively.
  • Change forces you out of your comfort zone, making you more ambitious and goal-oriented.

Rather than seeing change as disruptive, view it as a push toward self-improvement and personal development.

7. Change Leads to Success

At first, change may feel uncomfortable or even painful, but in the long run, it often leads to success. Most personal and professional achievements come from stepping into the unknown, taking risks and adapting to new circumstances.

  • Entrepreneurs who embrace change innovate and thrive in competitive markets.
  • People who adapt quickly to life changes grow stronger and more resilient.
  • The willingness to step outside of your comfort zone is often what separates successful people from those who stay stuck.

If you’re serious about achieving personal and professional success, embracing change is not optional — it’s essential.

Final Thoughts

Change is not the enemy — it’s a gateway to growth, learning and success. The sooner you shift your perspective, the more opportunities and confidence you’ll gain.

Next time you face a life transition, embrace it with open arms. Trust that whatever happens, you have the ability to adapt, thrive and come out even stronger.


To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program

 

 

 

 

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Why Positive Thinking Reduces Stress

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Have you ever noticed how some people seem to handle stressful situations effortlessly, while others feel overwhelmed by the smallest setbacks? The difference often lies in their mindset. Positive thinking isn’t just about feeling good — it’s a powerful tool that can reduce stress, improve health and create a more fulfilling life. When you choose optimism over negativity, you take control of your emotional well-being and set yourself up for long-term success.


Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance


Stress is a normal part of life, but chronic stress can take a serious toll on your body and mind. Research shows that prolonged exposure to stress can lead to anxiety, depression, high blood pressure and even weakened immune function. The way you think about challenges plays a huge role in determining how stress affects you. Negative thinking amplifies stress, making problems seem larger and more difficult than they actually are. In contrast, positive thinking helps you maintain perspective, allowing you to approach difficulties with clarity and confidence.

Optimism changes how your body responds to stress. When you encounter a challenge, your brain triggers a fight-or-flight response, releasing stress hormones like cortisol. If you dwell on negative thoughts, your body remains in this heightened state for extended periods, leading to chronic stress. However, when you adopt a positive mindset, your brain releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine and serotonin, which help counteract stress and promote a sense of calm.

People who practice positive thinking are also more likely to engage in healthy behaviours that reduce stress. They exercise regularly, maintain strong social connections and find productive ways to cope with challenges. Instead of dwelling on problems, they focus on solutions, which helps them move forward rather than feeling stuck. This proactive approach makes setbacks feel less overwhelming and reduces the overall impact of stress.

A common misconception is that positive thinking means ignoring problems or pretending everything is fine. In reality, optimism is about acknowledging difficulties while choosing to focus on what can be done rather than what is wrong. It’s about shifting from a victim mentality — where problems control you — to an empowered mindset, where you take action to improve your situation.

The benefits of positive thinking extend beyond stress reduction. Studies have found that optimistic people tend to live longer, recover faster from illnesses and have lower risks of heart disease. A positive outlook can even strengthen your immune system, making it easier for your body to fight off infections. In essence, maintaining a positive mindset doesn’t just improve your mood — it directly impacts your physical health.

One effective way to practice positive thinking is by reframing your thoughts. When faced with a challenge, instead of thinking, “This is impossible,” try asking yourself, “What can I do to make this easier?” Shifting your focus from obstacles to solutions can instantly reduce stress and make problems feel more manageable.

Surrounding yourself with positive influences also plays a crucial role in maintaining an optimistic mindset. People who constantly complain or focus on the worst aspects of life can reinforce negative thinking. On the other hand, spending time with those who uplift and encourage you can make it easier to stay positive, even during tough times.

Actionable Step:

Pay attention to your inner dialogue and challenge negative thoughts when they arise. If you catch yourself thinking something pessimistic, pause and reframe it into a more constructive perspective. Instead of saying, “I’ll never get through this,” try, “This is tough, but I have the strength to handle it.” By actively shifting your thoughts, you’ll reduce stress and build resilience over time.

Choosing to focus on the positive doesn’t mean ignoring reality — it means training your mind to respond in a way that supports your well-being. Stress is an inevitable part of life, but how you react to it determines its impact. By practising positive thinking, you can reduce stress, improve health and create a more fulfilling life filled with confidence, clarity, and resilience.


To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

 

 

 

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The Power of Gratitude in Overcoming Negativity

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Have you ever noticed how negativity seems to spread like wildfire? One small complaint can turn into an entire conversation of dissatisfaction. It’s easy to fall into this trap, but constantly dwelling on what’s wrong in life can create a cycle that’s difficult to break. The problem is that negativity doesn’t just affect your mindset — it shapes your experiences and interactions, pushing people away and making daily challenges seem even harder.

One of the most powerful ways to combat negativity is by practising gratitude. While it may sound simple, the habit of appreciating what you have can transform your mindset, improve your mood and even lead to better relationships and opportunities. It’s not about ignoring life’s difficulties but rather shifting your focus to what is already good.


Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program


Gratitude has a profound impact on mental health. Studies show that people who regularly express appreciation for what they have experience lower levels of stress and depression. This happens because gratitude rewires the brain, encouraging the release of positive neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin. When you focus on the good, your brain naturally starts searching for more reasons to feel content. Over time, this shift in perspective makes you more resilient in the face of adversity.

One of the biggest misconceptions about happiness is that it’s tied to wealth or material success. Society often conditions us to believe that financial security equates to joy. While money is essential for covering necessities and reducing stress related to basic survival, it doesn’t guarantee happiness. Many people with financial success still feel unfulfilled, while others with modest means live deeply satisfying lives. The difference often lies in their ability to appreciate what they already have rather than constantly seeking more.

Consider the things in your life that bring you joy outside of material possessions. Do you have a close relationship with a friend or family member? Are you in good health? Have you had moments recently that made you laugh or feel at peace? These seemingly small aspects of life hold more value than we often realize. Gratitude shifts your perspective away from what you lack and toward what enriches your life.

People who practice gratitude tend to attract more positivity. The way you perceive the world affects how you interact with it. If you focus on what’s wrong, you will naturally gravitate toward conversations and situations that reinforce that belief. On the other hand, when you consistently acknowledge the good in your life, you project an energy that draws optimistic and uplifting people toward you.

Expressing gratitude isn’t just about personal reflection; it also strengthens relationships. When you show appreciation for the people around you, whether through kind words or thoughtful actions, you nurture stronger bonds. People enjoy being around those who make them feel valued. Something as simple as thanking someone for their effort or acknowledging their kindness can create a cycle of positivity that benefits both you and them.

It’s easy to assume that some people are just naturally optimistic, but in reality, gratitude is a skill that can be cultivated. Developing a habit of gratitude doesn’t require drastic changes — small daily actions can have a significant impact. Keeping a gratitude journal, where you write down a few things you are thankful for each day, can be an excellent way to reinforce this mindset.

Verbalizing gratitude is another effective approach. Taking a moment to tell someone how much you appreciate them can uplift their mood while reinforcing your own positive mindset. Even silently reflecting on what went well during your day can shift your perspective over time.

One of the most challenging aspects of staying grateful is overcoming negativity from external sources. It’s easy to be influenced by the people and media around you. News outlets often focus on negative stories because they attract attention. Social media can make it seem like everyone else is living a perfect life, leading to comparisons that breed dissatisfaction. Being mindful of these influences and choosing to focus on the good in your own life can help you maintain a more balanced outlook.

Actionable Step:

Start a daily gratitude habit by setting aside a few moments each morning or evening to think about three things you’re grateful for. They don’t have to be major events — small joys like a good meal, a kind gesture or a moment of peace count. If you catch yourself focusing on negativity, pause and consciously shift your attention to something positive. Over time, this practice will help rewire your mindset toward optimism.

When you develop the habit of gratitude, you take control of your mindset rather than letting external circumstances dictate your emotions. This shift allows you to break free from negativity, build stronger relationships and cultivate a greater sense of fulfillment in your daily life. While challenges will always exist, a grateful perspective equips you with the resilience to face them with optimism.


To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program

 

 

 

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How Perspective Can Shift Your Mindset

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Have you ever noticed how the news is overwhelmingly negative? Stories of crime, disasters and conflict dominate headlines, making it seem like the world is falling apart. While staying informed is important, consuming too much negative news can distort your perception of reality, making your own life seem worse than it is. However, by putting things into perspective, you can learn to appreciate your situation and avoid falling into a cycle of negativity.


Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance


The human brain is wired to pay more attention to negative information. This evolutionary trait helped early humans survive by recognizing threats. However, in today’s world, this tendency can make minor setbacks feel overwhelming. Social media and news sources amplify this effect by constantly feeding negative stories, often making it difficult to focus on the positive aspects of life. While problems exist, they should not overshadow the good that is also present.

Perspective plays a crucial role in shaping emotions and reactions. Two people can experience the same situation but interpret it completely differently based on their mindset. Someone who loses their job might see it as a failure, while another person might view it as an opportunity to pursue a new career path. The circumstances are the same, but the interpretation makes all the difference.

One way to shift your perspective is by recognizing that hardships exist worldwide, often far worse than what you may be experiencing. This isn’t about comparing suffering but rather acknowledging that many of the difficulties we face are not as insurmountable as they seem. Watching the news, it’s easy to see how many people are going through extreme adversity — war, famine and natural disasters. Recognizing that your struggles, while valid, may not be as severe can help you cultivate gratitude for what you do have.

It’s natural to feel sympathy for those who are struggling, but their situations can also serve as a reminder that your life likely contains many blessings. If you have food, shelter and the ability to pursue your goals, you already have more than many people in the world. This realization can help shift your mindset from focusing on what’s lacking to appreciating what’s already there.

Negative thinking often leads to a sense of helplessness. If you constantly dwell on problems, they can start to feel bigger than they actually are. However, putting things into perspective allows you to see that most challenges are temporary. What seems like a major issue today might not even be a concern a few months from now. When you step back and look at the bigger picture, it becomes easier to find solutions rather than getting stuck in frustration.

Focusing on perspective also helps improve relationships. When you assume the worst about people’s intentions, small conflicts can turn into unnecessary arguments. But when you consider another person’s point of view, it’s easier to find understanding and compromise. A frustrating interaction with a coworker might not be personal — it could be that they’re dealing with their own stress. Giving people the benefit of the doubt can reduce misunderstandings and create more positive interactions.

It’s also important to remember that social media can distort reality. People tend to share their best moments online, making their lives appear perfect. This can create unrealistic comparisons, leading to feelings of inadequacy. However, no one’s life is as flawless as it seems on a screen. Recognizing this can prevent you from falling into the trap of comparing your struggles to someone else’s highlight reel.

One of the best ways to gain perspective is by shifting focus from problems to solutions. When facing a challenge, ask yourself: Will this matter a year from now? Is there a way to improve the situation? These questions help reframe problems in a way that makes them feel more manageable. Instead of getting stuck in negativity, you train your mind to seek progress.

Actionable Step:

Limit exposure to negative news and social media by setting specific time limits for consuming content. Balance this by actively seeking out positive or educational material that enriches your perspective. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed by negative information, take a moment to reflect on something good in your life. Developing this habit will help you maintain a more balanced and optimistic outlook.

Changing your perspective doesn’t mean ignoring problems; it means looking at them in a way that fosters growth rather than defeat. By recognizing that many difficulties are temporary, avoiding unnecessary comparisons and appreciating the good in your life, you can train your mind to approach challenges with resilience. When you learn to shift your mindset, you free yourself from unnecessary stress and create space for a more positive, fulfilling life.


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Michael

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P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

 

 

 

 

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