Discover the Power of Setting Clear Goals

2023-09-06 ~ adminlife

You’re the one who makes things happen, and you’re the one who can turn things around. But, are you using your full potential? Do you have a clear vision of where you want to go and how to get there? If not, it’s time to up your game with some strategies that will skyrocket your career and life.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

The Magic of Clarity

You know what they say, “A goal without a plan is just a wish.” And that’s precisely what we want to avoid. Vague goals will only lead to confusion, lack of motivation, and ultimately, failure. That’s why I’m here to help you set clear goals that will propel you to success.

Strategy #1: Embrace the Power of Visualization

Close your eyes and picture yourself achieving your goal. How does it feel? What does it look like? The more vivid the image, the more motivated you’ll be to make it a reality. Visualization is a powerful tool used by top athletes, CEOs, and even astronauts. If they can do it, so can you!

Strategy #2: Turn Your Goals into a Roadmap

Break down your goal into smaller, manageable milestones. This will not only make your goal seem less daunting but also give you a clear path to follow. Celebrate each milestone you achieve, and before you know it, you’ll have reached your ultimate goal.

Strategy #3: Surround Yourself with Positivity

You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. So, choose wisely! Surround yourself with people who believe in you and support your goals. They’ll be there to cheer you on when times get tough and celebrate your victories with you.

Setting Clear Goals

Now that you know some strategies, it’s time to put them into action.? Here is a strategy that is designed to help you create a personalized goal-setting system that works for you.

How to decide what you truly want in life
The importance of being specific and detailed in your goals
The power of writing down your goals and keeping track of your progress
Breaking down your goal into smaller, manageable increments
Repeating the process for all your goals

Don’t Wait for “Someday”

It’s easy to put off your goals and dreams, waiting for the perfect moment to take action. But guess what? There’s no time like the present! So, don’t wait for “someday” to achieve your goals. Start now, and you’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish.

Remember, the sky’s the limit when it comes to your potential. With the right mindset and clear goals, you’ll be unstoppable. So, what are you waiting for? It’s time to unleash your inner self and make your dreams a reality!

Ready to take the first step? Start your journey to success today. Trust me, you won’t regret it!

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

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Five Tactics to Terminate Overthinking

2023-07-28 ~ adminlife

Ever found yourself stuck in a loop, replaying the same scenarios or thoughts over and over in your mind? You’re not the only one. Many of us get caught in this mental hamster wheel from time to time. But let’s be real, it’s not just unproductive—it can be downright harmful if it becomes a regular gig.

So, let’s dive right in and discover five ways to stop overthinking dead in its tracks.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

Spot the Overthinking Culprit

First things first, we need to know when we’re overthinking. It’s like spotting a pickpocket in a crowded place; once you know what you’re looking for, you can stop it before it causes any damage.

For instance, some folks start overthinking when they’re under pressure at work or dealing with a personal issue. For others, it’s more like a general feeling of anxiety or stress that triggers it.

Once you’ve identified the thoughts or situations that kick-start your overthinking, you’re one step closer to nipping it in the bud.

Unleash the Power of Pen and Paper

When your mind is a whirlwind of thoughts, jotting them down can be a lifesaver. It’s like emptying a cluttered room; suddenly, you can see things more clearly.

Not only does writing help clear your head, but it can also help you spot any negative thinking patterns or self-doubt. If overthinking is your frequent flyer, keeping a journal to track your thoughts and progress can be your personal air traffic controller.

Time Out!

Once you’ve identified what’s causing your overthinking, it’s time to hit the pause button. Give yourself some time to chill before tackling the issue.

Think about it: Would you rather make decisions with a clear mind or while you’re in a state of panic? Exactly.

So, take a break, do something you enjoy, go for a walk, or listen to some calming tunes. Or, why not try a warm bath or some deep breathing exercises? The point is, find your zen before you address the problem.

A Problem Shared is a Problem Halved

Ever heard this old saying? Well, it holds true when you’re overthinking. Sometimes, talking to someone else about your problem can provide a fresh perspective.

Just make sure it’s someone who’ll listen without judgment and who you trust to be honest with you. If you’re comfortable, you might even consider talking to a professional, like a therapist or counselor.

Starting the conversation might feel a bit tricky, but remember, honesty is the best policy. Express how you’re feeling and ask for their thoughts on the situation. And remember, listen without judgment, just as you’d want them to do.

Be Here, Now

Finally, learning to focus on the present moment can be a game-changer. Instead of dwelling on the past or fretting about the future, concentrate on the here and now.

This mindfulness can help you see thoughts as just thoughts, rather than getting tangled up in them.

Stop the Overthinking Train

Overthinking can be a tough nut to crack, but with these tactics, it’s definitely doable. By recognizing the triggers, writing things down, taking a time-out, talking to someone, and practicing mindfulness, you can derail the overthinking train.

Remember, if overthinking is a regular visitor, keeping a journal can be a powerful tool. And, always give yourself time to relax before addressing the triggers.

So, are you ready to put the brakes on overthinking and take back control of your mind? Let’s do this together.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael.

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program.

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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Does Success Scare You?

2022-06-22 ~ adminlife

To many people, the thought that some people may be afraid of success sounds very odd. People can understand fear of failure, but having a fear of success sounds very preposterous.

Why would a person not want to be successful? How about you?

A common block to being successful consistently is a fear of success. People will achieve 90% of a goal and throw it away at the last moment.

If you would like to listen to these types of articles, you can visit my podcasts at

These are short, usually under 5 minutes but they can enable you to listen to confidence and motivation advice and tips while driving or relaxing.

There are many symptoms and components in the fear of success.

The many causes of the fear of success.

The fear of change. You are programmed to avoid change even if your life is less than ideal. Even if you are really dissatisfied with your life, you are still surviving.

Your brain is thinking about what could happen if there are changes in your situation. For your brain, alive but miserable is a lot better than possibly being happy but you could end up dead.

A fear of having greater responsibility. With success comes responsibility. You usually have to become much more responsible if you want to experience more success. More is expected from you when you are more successful.

When you start a business that becomes successful, you may now have employees relying on you.
A real estate empire may sound really great, but now there are tenants, debt and taxes that you have to deal with.

You have a fear of standing out. Many people do not like attention, while some love it. When you are successful you are noticed and there will be people that will dislike you. They may have feelings of jealousy and being mediocre in their lives.

You may feel that you would rather just blend into the background than be in the spotlight.

People that fear success have many common characteristics and symptoms.

They self-sabotage. This is experienced by many people. You are making great progress but suddenly things start to fall apart. You start to make mistakes and poor choices. You can usually see this happening to others but it is more difficult to see in yourself.

Goals keep changing. You change your mind on your goal just as you are close to being successful. With these constant changes you will never make any progress. You need to choose a goal that appeals to you and stay with it.

They procrastinate. A common signal that you are afraid of being successful is a sudden lack of motivation. One of the primary destroyers of making progress is procrastination.

Manage your fear of success with these techniques.

Find the cause. Find out what you are actually afraid of and determine the cause of this fear. Once you understand your enemy, you will have a chance to work around it.

See how your thoughts and behaviour are changed by your fear. What is your fear actually doing to you? What symptoms do you have? How do these affect your thinking and behaviour?

Don’t avoid your fears, face them. When you avoid your fears you are heading towards failure. Develop a plan and a strategy to work around your fear. Become resilient to fear by giving yourself a pep talk or ask a friend for help. Do what is necessary to keep making progress.

If you don’t know why you can’t achieve success, consider that you may be afraid of success. Do any of the symptoms resonate with you? What do you think of your success in life up to now? Have you been underachieving?

When you consider the source of your fear, a fear of success can make sense. Making sense of something doesn’t make it the most desired option. Achieve the greatness that you deserve by overcoming your fear of success.

To work together to help you get moving in the right direction in your life, click on the blue button below to book a 15-minute, no obligation “Get to know you” call.

Going alone on creating a better life is difficult. Find out how working with a Life Coach to remove your pain points, can make the journey to success and a better life easier.

Book the call now.

To your success

Michael

P.S. you know that living a life that is in balance is important. When you can balance your work, family, health, relationships, fitness and money, you feel better and can achieve your goals. You have the support of your family and friends which makes life worth living.

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Amazing Self-talk in 5 Minutes

2022-06-15 ~ adminlife

The impact of the self-talk that is constantly going on inside your head is dramatic. Your actions and emotions are determined by the conversations you have with yourself. There are different types of self-talk.

General Self-talk

Raise your awareness. You have been talking to yourself for many years that your self-talk has become so natural that you may not really understand what you are saying. You must become aware of what you are saying about your life.

If you would like to listen to these types of articles, you can visit my podcasts at

These are short, usually under 5 minutes but they can enable you to listen to confidence and motivation advice and tips while driving or relaxing.

Pattern disruption. A tool for making life changes is self-talk. Your fear of numbers may have been caused by receiving a bad grade in a math class and has been reinforced. Now you can take many online courses to help you in any type of math.

Take some action. When you are giving yourself your internal speeches, include a call to action. You should focus on attainable goals.

Do a reality check. Check to see if your self-talk is actually a reflection of what is actually going on around you. The difference between being a failure in the kitchen and just burning one slice of toast is huge.

Talk to others. It is valuable to get feedback from others. What do you colleagues and your partner say about you and ate your impressions the same?

Consistency. Before you accept a message, you usually have to hear it many times. With practice, your self-talk will get wiser.

Be your own friend. You don’t speak as harshly to your friends, or others, than you do to yourself. Talk to yourself as you would talk to a close friend. You should be truthful and supportive to yourself.

Motivation Self-talk

Strengthen yourself. In situations were you need endurance and confidence, motivational self-talk works best. You can increase your confidence and belief in your worth and your abilities with a good pep talk.

Identify your hot buttons. What words invigorate you? Call yourself a superhero and remind yourself how awesome you are.

Keep it short. You stay on track easier when you use single words or short phrases. You won’t be distracted by any doubts and you will be better able to focus on your assets.

Instructional Self-talk

Begin early. A great opportunity for instructional self-talk is at the start of a new project. During the important starting phase is a good time to coach yourself.

Be specific and precise. Break down your tasks into specific parts. For public speaking, you could use: make eye contact, get your pacing correct and be enthusiastic.

See your success. See yourself achieving the results you want.

Reassuring Self-talk

Acknowledging your feelings. You can manage your tense moments and have more comfort by having a soothing self-talk. Even if you feel afraid, you will have the best results if you accept your emotions.

Create some distance. People will perform better under stress if they call themselves by their name or replacing the word you instead of using the word I. When you are under pressure this is one way to restore objectivity.

Focus on the positive. Your life challenges won’t disappear just by using self-talk, but you can respond in a more constructive manner. Concentrate on doing better in the future instead of replaying and criticizing yourself for any past mistake.

Start moving yourself in a positive direction with your self-talk. Learn what the thoughts that are going through your head are saying, and if they are negative, change them into a stream of encouragement. You will enjoy more success in your life and reduce stress, and enhance your self-confidence with the right self-talk.

To work together to help you get moving in the right direction in your life, click on the blue button below to book a 15-minute, no obligation “Get to know you” call.

Going alone on creating a better life is difficult. Find out how working with a Life Coach to remove your pain points, can make the journey to success and a better life easier.

Book the call now.

To your success

Michael

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7 Ways You Can Suffer if Your Life is Out of Balance

2022-02-23 ~ adminlife

It’s very challenging to achieve balance in life. Some believe it’s impossible to have a balanced life if you’re committed to succeeding at the highest level. Maybe that’s true, but most people don’t need to become a billionaire or a movie star to consider themselves successful.

Success and a balanced life can coexist. However, you can’t afford to waste any of your time.

A life that’s out of balance includes some degree of suffering:

When your life is out of whack, you can spend too much money. If you’re working hard day after day, it’s common to think that you deserve to enjoy your life, so you whip out your wallet. Unfortunately, it’s easy to outspend your income. The pleasure you get from spending money also doesn’t last for long.
- On the other end of the spectrum, if you’re not paying enough attention to work, your income is likely lower than it could be.
- Putting too much or too little attention on work can have negative financial implications.
If your life is out of balance, you’re likely to exercise too little, eat poorly, and suffer from excessive amounts of stress. You can also suffer from insomnia. Your health is one of the first things to go downhill when your life is out of balance.

If you would like to listen to these types of articles, you can visit my podcasts at

https://www.podomatic.com/podcasts/confidenceandmotivation

These are short, usually under 5 minutes but they can enable you to listen to confidence and motivation advice and tips while driving or relaxing.

Your relationship with your friends and family can suffer. One of the other casualties of an out-of-balance lifestyle is your relationship with other people. Whether it’s your spouse, partner, children, friends, or other family members, your relationships can suffer.
- Consider the consequences of damaging your relationship with your spouse and children. Are the other things you’re spending time on worth it?
You don’t have time for the things you enjoy. Do you love to watch football? Go out with the ladies for dinner on Thursdays? Whittle totem poles in the garage? An out of balance life lacks the time necessary to enjoy your hobbies and other enjoyable activities.
Your mood suffers. Are you cranky, intolerant, angry, or feeling hopeless? Your life might be out of balance. People with an out of balance life often resent the time that people and unrelated activities require.
- It’s not easy to feel good when your life is out of whack. A consistent bad mood is a terrible burden to carry, for you and everyone around you. Everyone suffers when a family member is miserable.
You lose the ability to focus. A lack of sleep, horrible diet, no exercise, and no social life can tear down your ability to focus your attention productively. As your mind and body wear down, you can’t stay on task as well.
- You’re also spending too much brain power focused on other things. If you’re eating dinner with your family, but lost in your thoughts, you’re not focusing on sharing a meal with your family.
You either won’t take or can’t enjoy a vacation. If you can’t, or won’t, make time for a vacation, your life is out of balance. This can be a great test to determine if your life is under control. Do you think your life is unbalanced? Plan a vacation and see what happens!

Is your life out of balance? What changes can you make in order to bring it back into balance? It can be a real challenge to maintain balance in your life, but the consequences of failing to be balanced can be severe.

Remember how important your health, relationships, and happiness are to you. Where would you be without them?

Take action today to bring your life back into balance! You’ll be so glad you did!

You can book your 15-minute “Get to know you” call by clicking on the blue button below

and we can talk about how we can work together to bring balance back into your life.

To your success

Michael

P.S. What is holding you back from achieving the success in your life and career? For many people it is their Limiting Beliefs. Once you understand and remove your old limiting beliefs and replace them with new empowering beliefs, success becomes that much easier.

Check out my basic Limiting Belief, self-paced program at Confidence and Life Coaching by clicking on the logo below. This program will get you started on identifying 14 of the most common limiting beliefs, you will probably be familiar with some of them, and will give empowering beliefs to replace them in your life if you have them.

After completing the course, you will be at the starting point of your success journey.

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