Category: self-worth

Revisiting Dreams to Find Your True Passion

~ adminlife

dream catcher

 

When you were younger, did you ever have a dream that felt so exciting and real, only to set it aside as life got in the way? Maybe it was becoming an artist, starting a business or travelling the world. These dreams might seem distant now, buried under responsibilities and practical concerns, but they hold valuable clues about your passions and what could bring you genuine fulfillment.

Dreams often represent our purest aspirations, unfiltered by societal expectations or fear of failure. Over time, however, we’re encouraged to prioritize practicality over passion. It’s common to hear advice like “follow your dreams” paired with warnings about stability and security. While these considerations are important, they can also create barriers that prevent you from revisiting those dreams and exploring what’s possible.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

Reconnecting with your dreams doesn’t necessarily mean making a drastic life change. It’s about reflecting on the goals and passions that once excited you and considering how they could fit into your current life. Even dreams that seem impractical can be adjusted or reimagined in ways that align with your reality.

One of the best ways to reconnect with your dreams is to ask yourself what excited you before external pressures shaped your decisions. Did you love writing stories, playing an instrument or designing clothes? Think about why these activities resonated with you. Was it the creative process, the sense of accomplishment or the joy of sharing your work with others? By identifying the underlying elements of your dream, you can start to see how they might still have a place in your life today.

Take the example of someone who dreamed of being an actor but ended up working in corporate sales. While pursuing a Hollywood career might feel out of reach, they could still tap into their passion for performance by joining a local theatre group or starting a podcast. These outlets allow them to fulfill their creative desires while maintaining their responsibilities.

Fear is one of the most significant obstacles to revisiting old dreams. We fear failure, judgment and the possibility that our efforts might not lead to success. It’s important to remember that pursuing a dream doesn’t have to be about achieving perfection or external recognition. It’s about the joy and fulfillment you experience along the way.

Another common barrier is the assumption that dreams are permanent and unchanging. Just because you’re no longer interested in becoming a professional athlete doesn’t mean you can’t explore new passions related to sports, like coaching or writing about the game. Dreams evolve as we do, and allowing them to adapt to your current self can make them more attainable and meaningful.

Actionable Step:

Write down three dreams you’ve put on hold or abandoned. Next to each dream, list one small action you could take to explore it further. For example, if you always wanted to travel, research destinations within your budget. If you dreamed of writing a book, start with a single page or outline. Small steps help make big goals feel achievable.

The process of revisiting your dreams can also lead to a deeper understanding of what drives you. Maybe your childhood dream of becoming a doctor wasn’t about the title itself but the desire to help others. That insight could guide you toward volunteer work, mentoring or a career in social services.

Dreams aren’t just remnants of the past; they’re roadmaps to what lights you up. Even if your circumstances have changed, the core of what made those dreams special remains within you. By reconnecting with them, you gain a clearer sense of what brings you joy and a renewed sense of purpose.

Life doesn’t have to be an endless compromise between practicality and passion. There’s room for both if you’re willing to revisit the dreams you thought were lost. Who knows? That dream you once set aside might just be the key to creating a life that feels both meaningful and exciting.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

 

 

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Discover Hidden Talents by Asking Those Closest to You

~ adminlife

feedback

 

Have you ever wondered if others see talents in you that you’ve overlooked? Sometimes, the people closest to us — our family and close friends — can recognize strengths and abilities that we fail to notice in ourselves. Asking for their perspective might be the key to uncovering hidden passions and pursuing a more fulfilling path.

We often think we know ourselves better than anyone else, but that’s not always true. Our daily routines and self-perceptions can blind us to certain traits or skills we possess. Family members and friends, however, observe us in different contexts and with fresh perspectives. They may notice how naturally you solve problems, organize events, or bring people together. These are strengths that might feel ordinary to you but stand out as exceptional to them.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

The idea of seeking input from others can feel vulnerable. What if they point out flaws instead of strengths? What if their suggestions don’t align with your self-image? While these concerns are valid, they’re often outweighed by the benefits. This exercise isn’t about agreeing with everything they say — it’s about gaining insights that broaden your understanding of yourself.

When you approach your family or close friends, start with open-ended questions. Rather than asking, “What am I good at?” try framing it as, “What do you think I do well that others might not notice?” This phrasing encourages thoughtful, specific responses rather than generic answers. Be prepared for answers that may surprise you. They might highlight a skill you take for granted or suggest a path you’ve never considered.

One powerful example of this comes from a successful entrepreneur who discovered her passion for baking through a simple conversation with her family. Growing up, she often baked for special occasions, but she considered it just a hobby. When her brother mentioned how her baking brought the family together and suggested she start a bakery, it sparked an idea. Today, she owns a thriving business that combines her love of baking with her natural ability to connect with people.

It’s important to approach this exercise with an open mind. Even if the feedback seems unexpected or unrelated to your current goals, consider how it might fit into your life. The key is to see patterns in what people tell you. If multiple people highlight your creativity or your ability to stay calm under pressure, those are strengths worth exploring further.

Feedback from others doesn’t have to dictate your path. Instead, use it as a guide to complement your self-reflection. Consider it one piece of the puzzle in understanding what makes you unique. You can also balance this external input with assessments like personality tests or journaling to create a fuller picture of your strengths and passions.

Actionable Step:

Choose three people you trust — family members, close friends or mentors — and ask them what they believe your greatest strengths are. Record their answers, looking for common themes or surprising insights. Then, reflect on how these observations align with your current interests or goals.

This process can be transformative. When you view yourself through the lens of others, you often gain a fresh appreciation for qualities you’ve taken for granted. You might discover that your ability to teach, empathize or innovate is something truly special.

Sometimes, the people closest to us see our potential more clearly than we do. They’re witnesses to our achievements, habits and even quirks that might point toward a passion waiting to be explored. Trusting their perspective, even just a little, can help illuminate a path that feels authentic and exciting.

Your journey to finding passion doesn’t have to be a solo endeavour. By seeking input from those who know and care about you, you not only strengthen your self-awareness but also deepen your connections with them. The insights they share might just lead you to a passion or purpose you’d never considered before.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life.

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

 

 

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Be Firm in Your Decisions and Responsibilities

~ adminlife

decision

 

Have you ever been in a position where every choice you make feels like walking a tightrope? Leadership often places you in situations where your decisions carry weight far beyond your own immediate concerns. Yet, the true test of power lies not in the choices you make but in your ability to stand by them, especially when faced with opposition. This is where firmness becomes an essential skill.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

Firmness in decision-making is the cornerstone of responsible leadership. It’s not just about asserting authority; it’s about owning the outcomes of your actions. Power and responsibility are inextricably linked, and those who understand this connection recognize the importance of staying resolute. When you waver or backpedal, it sends a message of uncertainty to your team, weakening their confidence in your ability to lead.

Being firm does not mean being inflexible. Effective leaders strike a balance between conviction and adaptability. Imagine standing at the helm of a ship during a storm. While it’s crucial to steer toward your destination, you must also be prepared to adjust your sails as conditions change. Firmness, in this sense, is about having a clear sense of direction and the courage to follow it, even when faced with challenges.

There will be moments when the decisions you make are unpopular. This is where many leaders falter, prioritizing approval over integrity. While it’s natural to want to maintain harmony within a team, prioritizing short-term appeasement can lead to long-term instability. Instead, focus on making choices that align with your values and the greater good. By demonstrating consistency in your actions, you earn respect, even from those who may initially disagree with you.

One way to build firmness is by developing a robust decision-making framework. Start by gathering all relevant information and evaluating the possible outcomes. Consider the ethical implications of your choices and how they align with your overarching vision. Once a decision is made, communicate it clearly to your team, outlining the rationale behind it. Transparency not only fosters trust but also minimizes resistance, as people are more likely to support decisions they understand.

Another aspect of firmness involves standing by your team when the going gets tough. Leadership isn’t just about giving orders; it’s about taking responsibility for the consequences of those orders. When mistakes happen — and they will — resist the urge to deflect blame. Instead, use these moments as opportunities to learn and grow, both individually and as a group. A leader who stands firm in the face of adversity inspires loyalty and resilience.

It’s also important to recognize that firmness requires mental discipline. Power can be isolating, and the weight of responsibility often leads to self-doubt. To counter this, surround yourself with trusted advisors who can provide honest feedback and constructive criticism. While the final decision rests with you, having a sounding board can help clarify your thoughts and reinforce your confidence.

Actionable Step:

One common pitfall in leadership is the tendency to second-guess yourself, particularly when faced with criticism. To overcome this, practice the habit of reflection after every major decision. Take time to review what worked, what didn’t and why. Document these reflections in a leadership journal, noting both successes and lessons learned. This practice not only builds self-awareness but also strengthens your ability to make firm decisions in the future, as you’ll have a record of experiences to draw upon.

Being firm is not about projecting an image of unshakable authority; it’s about embodying the principles of accountability, consistency and courage. When you make decisions with integrity and communicate them with clarity, you create an environment where your team feels secure, even in times of uncertainty.

Remember that true leadership is not measured by how often you’re right but by how steadfastly you uphold your values and responsibilities. Whether you’re making high-stakes decisions or navigating everyday challenges, your firmness serves as a beacon, guiding your team through the complexities of power and responsibility.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

 

 

 

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Finding Fulfillment by Balancing Life and Work

~ adminlife

life balance

 

Have you ever felt like you’re running on a treadmill, constantly working but never truly living? In a culture that glorifies hustle and productivity, it’s easy to forget that success is about more than just work. Research has consistently shown that people who prioritize work-life balance experience greater overall well-being, stronger relationships and even higher productivity.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

Hard work is undeniably important. It’s often the cornerstone of success, but when it becomes all-consuming, it can lead to burnout and diminished satisfaction. True success includes the ability to enjoy the fruits of your labour — to cherish meaningful moments with loved ones, savor personal achievements and nurture your physical and mental health.

Many people equate taking time for themselves with slacking off, but this mindset is counterproductive. Time away from work isn’t wasted; it’s an investment in your overall well-being and performance. Studies show that people who regularly take breaks and prioritize personal time are more creative, focused and energized when they return to their tasks.

Finding balance starts with reevaluating your priorities. Ask yourself: Are you working to live, or living to work? If work has taken precedence over everything else, it’s time to make a conscious effort to integrate activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. This could mean spending quality time with family, pursuing hobbies, traveling or simply relaxing.

Work-life balance doesn’t mean splitting your time evenly between work and personal life. It means being fully present in each area when it matters most. When you’re at work, give it your best effort. When you’re at home or with friends, give them your undivided attention.

Technology, while a boon for productivity, can also blur the lines between work and life. Answering work emails at dinner or checking your phone during family time can create a constant state of stress. Setting boundaries — such as turning off notifications after work hours or designating tech-free zones — can help you reclaim your personal time.

Actionable Step:

A common trap is feeling guilty about taking time off or relaxing. To counter this, schedule personal time just as you would a work meeting. Block out time on your calendar for activities you enjoy, whether it’s a walk in the park, dinner with friends or reading a book. Treat this time as non-negotiable and resist the urge to fill it with work tasks.

Balancing life and work also requires communication. Let your colleagues and loved ones know about your boundaries so they can support your efforts. This transparency fosters understanding and reduces pressure from both sides.

Success isn’t solely defined by achievements or accolades; it’s about living a life that feels meaningful and fulfilling. By finding balance, you create space for joy, connection and personal growth — all of which contribute to long-term success and happiness.

When you make time to enjoy life, you not only enrich your experiences but also enhance your ability to excel in your career. A well-rested, fulfilled individual is far more effective and innovative than someone perpetually burned out.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

Special ebook sale on now:

Now is your best chance to find my entire ebook collection for a promotional price at @Smashwords as part of their 2024 End of Year Sale! Find my books at https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MichaelW2391 through January 1.

 

 

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Strengthening Success Through Belief in Your Vision

~ adminlife

personal vision

 

What happens when self-doubt creeps in? For many, it can completely derail progress. Studies show that people who have a strong belief in their ideas are more likely to overcome obstacles and persist in the face of challenges. If you don’t believe in your vision, it becomes all too easy to abandon it when the going gets tough.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

Believing in your concept is about more than just confidence; it’s the foundation of your determination. Without it, you’re likely to second-guess every decision, lose momentum and struggle to convince others to support your goals. On the flip side, when you have an unwavering belief in what you’re trying to achieve, you can weather criticism, setbacks and moments of doubt with resilience.

However, it’s not uncommon to encounter skepticism from others — friends, family or colleagues who may not see the value in your vision. Their doubts can stem from a lack of understanding, fear of change or their own insecurities. The key is to separate constructive feedback from unwarranted negativity. Constructive input can refine your ideas; negativity should be fuel to prove your critics wrong.

Belief in your concept also requires preparation. The more thoroughly you understand your idea, its benefits and its potential, the more confident you’ll feel in advocating for it. This preparation involves research, planning and a clear articulation of your vision. Knowing your “why” and being able to communicate it effectively strengthens your resolve and attracts the support you need.

Resilience plays a significant role in maintaining your belief, especially when challenges arise. Doubt is natural when you face setbacks, but these moments can be turned into opportunities to reinforce your belief. By focusing on the progress you’ve made and the lessons you’ve learned, you can stay motivated to keep moving forward.

Actionable Step:

A common mistake is allowing external criticism to undermine your confidence. To combat this, create a “belief journal.” Write down the reasons you believe in your concept, the problems it solves and the potential impact it can have. Refer back to this journal during moments of doubt to remind yourself of your mission and re-center your focus.

Believing in your concept doesn’t mean being rigid or unwilling to adapt. It means staying committed to the core of your vision while remaining open to growth and refinement. This balance allows you to stay true to your purpose without being derailed by inevitable challenges.

Success often begins with conviction. When you stand firm in your belief, you inspire trust in others — whether they’re team members, clients or supporters. This trust can open doors, foster collaboration and propel your vision to new heights.

The road to success is rarely smooth, but unwavering belief in your concept acts as a guiding light. It keeps you focused on the bigger picture, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. By cultivating this belief, you’re not only more likely to achieve your goals but also to inspire others to believe in themselves.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

Special ebook sale on now:

Now is your best chance to find my entire ebook collection for a promotional price at @Smashwords as part of their 2024 End of Year Sale! Find my books at https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MichaelW2391 through January 1.

 

 

 

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