You can kick insecurity to the curb and take the reins of your life. You’ve already got the drive and ambition. Now, let’s talk about how to amplify your confidence and really own your world.
Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.
It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.
I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.
This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.
You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.
You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com
Visit the site and read through the program description.
Insecurity: The Invisible Chain
Insecurity is that sneaky little devil that keeps you stuck in the starting blocks. It’s like a chain around your ankle, holding you back from reaching your full potential. But guess what? You hold the key to that lock.
You weren’t born insecure. Babies don’t worry about whether they’re good enough. So, where did this insecurity come from? Let’s break it down.
The Roots of Insecurity
Insecurity can sprout from a few different seeds:
- Low self-esteem. If you’re constantly beating yourself up, guess what? You’re gonna feel pretty lousy. But here’s the kicker: your self-esteem is in your hands. You get to choose how you see yourself.
- Craving approval from others. Sure, it’s nice when people like you. But if you’re depending on others to feel good about yourself, you’re handing over your power. You’re letting them control your self-worth. Not cool, right?
- Unrealistic expectations. We’re bombarded with images of perfection everywhere we look. It’s easy to forget that those airbrushed models and billionaire entrepreneurs are the exception, not the rule. Don’t compare your behind-the-scenes to their highlight reel.
- Past criticisms and insults. Negative comments from your past can stick like glue. But remember, those words say more about the person who said them than they do about you.
Feeling secure and confident isn’t something that just happens. It takes work. But you’re no stranger to hard work, are you?
Strategies to Boost Your Confidence
Here are some strategies to help you shatter that chain of insecurity:
- Self-approval. Who needs approval from others when you can give it to yourself? Next time you catch yourself seeking validation, stop. Compliment yourself instead. It’ll feel weird at first, but stick with it. You’ll get the hang of it.
- Compare yourself to…yourself. Are you better off than you were last month? Last year? That’s what really matters. Forget about keeping up with the Joneses.
- Let go of the past. We’ve all said things we regret. But does it make sense to let someone else’s thoughtless comment from years ago still hurt you today? Let it go. Forgive and move on.
Feeling secure isn’t about impressing others. It’s about accepting yourself and trusting in your abilities. It’s about facing your challenges head-on and not letting others define your worth.
The more you love and trust yourself, the better you’ll feel about others too. So, are you ready to shatter your insecurity and conquer your world?
Remember, you’re stronger than your insecurities.
To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.
Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.
Nothing happens until action is taken.
To your success.
Michael
P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program
P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching
