Your Subconscious Mind’s Power

2024-06-12 ~ adminlife

Whether you like it or not, your subconscious mind is in control. Even when you consciously decide to pursue a goal, it’s your subconscious that determines if you’ll take consistent action to achieve it!

By understanding how your subconscious works, you can connect with yourself on a deep level. You’ll have the keys to an abundant, fulfilling life, and all you’ll need to do is unlock that door.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

What is the Subconscious Mind?

Your mind is like an iceberg. The conscious mind is the visible part above the surface, while the subconscious is the vast bulk below, unseen.

There are certain thoughts and processes in your mind that you may not be aware of consciously, such as beliefs, instincts, and memories. Everything you’ve ever seen or heard is stored in your subconscious, affecting your current thoughts, decisions, and actions.

Communicating with the subconscious mind is popular in self-help and psychoanalysis because tapping into the subconscious is the fastest way to implement desired changes in your life.

The Power of Beliefs

Your subconscious mind holds a vast amount of information, more than your conscious mind can handle. Sometimes you might just have a “feeling” about something, and then find out that the “feeling” was right. Often, it’s your subconscious sending you these signals.

You’ve likely heard, “If you believe it, you can do it.” This saying is true because of the power of your subconscious. A belief can motivate you to do things you never thought were possible.

Believing in the power of the subconscious mind can help you communicate better with it. The alternative is to continue following base instincts, which can sometimes be limiting. For example, if you have a fear of public places, learning to communicate with your subconscious could help you overcome that fear.

Beyond Belief

Believing in the power of your subconscious is the first step to living the life you desire. Once you do, you can advance with your self-help ventures and personal development plans. You can further develop your talents, strengthen positive qualities, and overcome challenges by tapping into your subconscious.

You can also use your communications with the subconscious mind to address larger issues, like fears, or eliminate negative habits, such as smoking or emotional eating. When you reach the core of an issue in your subconscious, you can change it. The possibilities are endless!

How Do You Communicate With Your Subconscious Mind?

There are several techniques to effectively communicate with your subconscious mind and enable desired changes.

One popular method is hypnosis. You can use a trained counsellor or self-hypnosis techniques. There are also CDs and videos available that guide you through hypnosis sessions.

During hypnosis, rather than being asleep, you’re in a state of heightened awareness. Many of the inhibitions of your conscious mind will subside, allowing the subconscious to come to the forefront. In this state, you’re open to suggestions. Positive suggestions can lead to positive progress.

You can also communicate with the subconscious by reading, listening to recordings of positive mantras, and repeating affirmations. These positive statements can affirm and bring out the best in you, replacing negative thinking and doubt with positive images and beliefs. Check your local bookstore and online for many affirmation resources.

Stay aware of your innermost thoughts to better keep in touch with your subconscious. Always be truthful with yourself, follow your heart, and most importantly, have a firm belief in yourself.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program.

P. P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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Harnessing the Ego

2024-06-10 ~ adminlife

The ego, while often misunderstood, plays a significant role in our personal and professional lives. It can be a source of self-esteem and a means of establishing healthy boundaries. However, when left unchecked, it can also lead to conflicts, misunderstandings, and stagnation in personal growth. Navigating ego issues is crucial in maintaining a harmonious work environment and achieving career advancement.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

In this article, we will delve deeper into the concept of ego and provide strategies that can help people manage their own ego and deal with ego-driven behaviour in others.

Personal Ego Management

Embrace Continuous Learning

The ego often blinds us to our own shortcomings, hindering personal growth. To counteract this, commit to continuous learning. This could involve reading psychology books, attending workshops, or investing in personal development products.

Cultivate Active Listening

Active listening is a powerful tool for managing your ego. It involves not just hearing but understanding and evaluating input from others. This practice can help you gain insights, improve relationships, and boost your leadership skills.

Foster Genuine Confidence

Arrogance often masks insecurities. To build genuine confidence, acknowledge your strengths and limitations. Set ambitious yet achievable goals and strive to reach them. Remember, true confidence is not about superiority, but about embracing your unique capabilities.

Managing Ego in Others

Maintain Composure

Interacting with ego-driven individuals can be challenging. However, maintaining composure and seeing the humour in the situation can help alleviate tension.

Utilize Objective Communication

Keeping discussions focused on facts rather than personal attributes can help navigate ego-driven conflicts. Communicate clearly and directly, using precise language that conveys certainty.

Provide Constructive Validation

Validation can help individuals with fragile egos feel understood. However, it’s important to distinguish between validation and agreement. You can acknowledge someone’s feelings without endorsing their behaviour.

Advocate for Yourself

While it’s important to be understanding, it’s equally crucial to stand up for your principles. Let others know if they are crossing your boundaries.

Conclusion

Managing ego, both in oneself and in others, is a crucial skill for people. It fosters a positive work environment, promotes personal growth, and aids in achieving professional goals. Remember, a little humility goes a long way in ensuring success and popularity.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program.

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

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The Transformative Power of Self-Reflection

2024-02-14 ~ adminlife

In the pursuit of contentment and fulfillment, individuals often overlook a crucial aspect of personal development: self-reflection. This introspective process is not merely an exercise in thought; it is a transformative practice that has the potential to reshape one’s life in profound ways. Through self-reflection, one gains the ability to align their reality with their aspirations, to cultivate kindness and compassion, to celebrate their progress, and to learn from their missteps.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

The Catalyst for Change

Self-reflection serves as a catalyst for personal transformation. It empowers individuals to:

Assess their current state of satisfaction with life
Recognize the divergence between their aspirations and their actual path
Identify areas that require change or improvement
Formulate actionable plans to pursue new opportunities

For instance, a professional may realize through self-reflection that their current occupation no longer aligns with their passions. This epiphany can propel them towards a career transition, leading to a more fulfilling professional life.

The Path to Kindness

Self-reflection is instrumental in fostering empathy and kindness. It prompts individuals to:

Re-evaluate their interactions with others
Acknowledge the impact of their words and actions
Strive to improve their relationships and social conduct

Consider the story of Emma, who, after reflecting on a heated argument with a colleague, recognized her contribution to the conflict. This realization led her to apologize and work towards a more harmonious relationship, thus enhancing her work environment.

The Celebration of Accomplishments

Self-reflection is not solely focused on change; it also allows for the acknowledgement of achievements. By reflecting, one can:

Recognize and appreciate personal growth and milestones
Reaffirm their strengths and capabilities
Boost morale and self-esteem

Take, for example, the journey of Alex, who, after years of hard work, completed his degree. By reflecting on the challenges he overcame, Alex cultivated a sense of pride and self-worth that fuelled his ambition for future endeavours.

The Wisdom in Mistakes

One of the most significant aspects of self-reflection is the ability to learn from past experiences. It enables individuals to:

Analyze the outcomes of their decisions
Understand the lessons embedded in their errors
Make informed choices to avoid repeating mistakes

Sarah’s story illustrates this point. After reflecting on a failed business venture, she identified key misjudgments. This insight guided her subsequent projects, leading to greater success.

Conclusion

Self-reflection is not a mere pastime; it is an essential process for those seeking to lead a life of happiness, stability, and positivity. It is a powerful tool that allows for personal reassessment, the nurturing of kindness, the celebration of one’s journey, and the acquisition of wisdom from past experiences. By embracing self-reflection, individuals can unlock the potential for continuous growth and evolution, ensuring a future that resonates with their deepest values and aspirations.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. I am offering a free, no obligation Wheel of Life consulting and exercise session for three people each day. You can book the session at https://calendly.com/michael-coach/focused-program-45-minute

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6 Ways That Billionaires Think Differently Than the Rest of Us

2024-01-24 ~ adminlife

Let’s face it, billionaires are a breed apart. They don’t just march to the beat of a different drummer; they’re conducting the whole darn orchestra. But here’s the kicker – we can all tap into that rhythm. Your financial status doesn’t define your potential. You might not be destined to join the billionaire club, but hey, who’s to say you can’t bring home a bigger piece of the pie?

Let’s delve into the billionaire mindset and see what we can learn. Buckle up, because we’re about to take a wild ride into the world of high stakes and higher rewards.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

A Peek into the Billionaire’s Brain: Their Secret Sauce for Success

Playing the Long Game. Your average Joe is just trying to make it to the weekend, right? But billionaires, they’re not just playing chess, they’re planning ten moves ahead. They’re strategizing for a future that’s a decade away, maybe more.
- So, what’s stopping you from thinking bigger, dreaming longer? Sure, you’ve got to keep the lights on today, but you’ve also got to keep your eyes on the prize.
Time is Money, Literally. For billionaires, cash is just paper. It’s time that’s the real treasure. That’s why they’ve got chauffeurs, private jets, and a fleet of assistants. They know that every second counts.
- We often trade our precious time to save a few bucks. But remember, time is the one thing you can’t earn back. Use it wisely, folks.
Mastering the Art of Delegation. No one becomes a billionaire in a vacuum. They’ve got teams, partners, employees. They know the power of delegation.
- Think about it. Would you rather earn 100% from your own sweat and tears, or 1% from the efforts of a thousand others? Delegate, delegate, delegate. Your time is too valuable to be wasted.
Focusing on Earning, Not Saving. We’re all told to cut costs, save pennies. That’s fine if you’re planning to live it up in your golden years. But let’s be real, you can’t save big if you’re not earning big.
- Many billionaires are frugal, sure. But their primary focus? Increasing their income. So, stash away your savings, but keep your eye on the income ball.
Setting Sky-High Goals. Billionaires aren’t dreaming of a swanky car or a European vacation. They’re thinking about dominating industries, owning vast tracts of land. You can’t hit a home run if you’re aiming for the infield.
Loving the Grind. Some folks look at billionaires and scratch their heads. “Why keep working when you’ve got more money than you can ever spend?” they wonder. But here’s the secret – billionaires love the hustle. They thrive on progress and improvement. It’s not just about the money, it’s about the journey.

So, how does your mindset stack up against a billionaire’s? Which of these strategies can you adopt? You don’t need a billion-dollar bank account to think like a billionaire. And who knows? Adopting a billionaire mindset could be your ticket to a richer, more successful life.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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9 Things Mentally Strong People Do That Mentally Weak People Don’t

2023-12-20 ~ adminlife

The Distinctive Traits of Mentally Resilient Individuals

The human species is diverse and can be categorized in numerous ways. One such categorization is based on mental strength. We all know people who are mentally strong, and those who are not. But have you ever contemplated the actual disparities between these two groups? The differences are tangible and significant.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

Mentally resilient individuals consistently exhibit certain behaviours that their less resilient counterparts often fail to demonstrate. This article will explore these behaviours and offer insights into how you can cultivate mental resilience.

Key Behaviours Exhibited by Mentally Resilient Individuals

Initiation: Mentally resilient individuals excel at initiating tasks. They are assertive starters. Conversely, mentally fragile individuals often excel at planning but falter when it comes to taking the first step towards action.
Completion: Initiating a task is only part of the challenge. Mentally resilient individuals are also adept at seeing tasks through to completion. If you find yourself consistently giving up before completing significant tasks, it could be an indication that you need to build mental resilience.
Tackling Difficult Tasks: Success often requires undertaking challenging tasks. These tasks might necessitate multiple attempts, acquiring new knowledge, or stepping outside one’s comfort zone. Mentally fragile individuals often shirk from such tasks.
Embracing Change: Mentally resilient individuals leverage change for growth and progress. In contrast, mentally fragile individuals either resist change or are paralyzed by it.
Risk-Taking: Mentally resilient individuals are adept at striking a balance between taking calculated risks and avoiding reckless behaviour. Mentally fragile individuals, on the other hand, either succumb to impulsive tendencies and risk excessively or are overly cautious.
Celebrating Others’ Success: Mentally resilient individuals are comfortable with, or even celebrate, the success of others. Conversely, mentally fragile individuals often harbour resentment or jealousy towards successful individuals.
Perseverance: Mentally resilient individuals persist until they achieve their goals. Mentally fragile individuals, however, often give up too quickly and easily to achieve substantial success.
Assertiveness: Mentally resilient individuals have the ability to assertively decline requests that divert them from their goals. They can say “no” without remorse or regret.
Delayed Gratification: The most successful individuals can delay gratification for extended periods. The inability to delay gratification is a significant weakness. If you need immediate rewards, you may struggle to accomplish significant goals.

Mentally resilient individuals are more effective at overcoming obstacles, staying focused on their goals, and leveraging change to their advantage. They accomplish more and are generally more successful. In essence, they are willing to do what mentally fragile individuals are not.

Examine the list above and assess your mental resilience. You can develop mental toughness, and as your resilience improves, so will your life outcomes.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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