Unraveling the Misconceptions of Success

2023-07-21 ~ adminlife

Let’s talk about something that’s been bothering me. How many times have you found yourself believing in these so-called ‘truths’ about success? You know, those common misconceptions that we’ve all heard at some point in our lives.

The truth is, these misconceptions can often steer us in the wrong direction, leading us to make decisions that aren’t in our best interest. As the saying goes, it’s not what you don’t know that gets you into trouble, it’s what you know for sure that just isn’t so.

Let’s debunk some of these myths together, shall we?

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Myth 1: Successful people have a certain type of personality

From the introverted Bill Gates to the aloof Barack Obama, successful people come in all shapes and sizes. Whatever your personality, rest assured, you’ve got what it takes to climb the ladder of success.

Myth 2: Money changes a person

Money doesn’t change people; it simply magnifies who they truly are. It’s like a spotlight, illuminating your true character.

Myth 3: One must be intelligent to be successful

While intelligence can be a bonus, it’s not the be-all and end-all. There are countless examples of ordinary folks achieving extraordinary success. It’s consistency and determination that are the real game-changers.

Myth 4: It’s necessary to have an original idea

Sure, inventing the next Facebook would be nice, but it’s not a prerequisite for success. Sometimes, a slight improvement on an existing idea can be your ticket to the top.

Myth 5: It takes a lot of time to become and stay successful

We all have the same 24 hours in a day. It’s not about working longer; it’s about working smarter. Focus on the tasks that matter most and watch your productivity soar.

Myth 6: Success is lonely

Contrary to popular belief, success doesn’t mean you’ll be home alone on a Friday night. In fact, it opens up a world of business and social opportunities.

Myth 7: Luck is an important component of success

While luck can play a part, it’s not a necessity. The more you put yourself out there, the more chances you have to get lucky. But remember, hard work beats luck any day of the week.

Myth 8: The most successful people had an easy time

Think successful people had it easy? Think again. Many have faced adversity and overcome obstacles that would make most of us throw in the towel.

Myth 9: It’s important to have a lot of willpower to achieve success

Willpower can be a useful tool when forming new habits, but it’s not a necessity. After all, how much willpower does it take for you to brush your teeth each day?

Now that we’ve busted these myths, I bet you’re seeing success in a whole new light. Remember, understanding the real nature of success can dramatically increase your odds of achieving it.

So, are you ready to rewrite your own success story? Let’s get started!

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael.

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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Motivation: The Key to Success and Reaching Goals

2023-07-14 ~ adminlife

Motivation is a crucial factor in achieving success and reaching goals. Without it, even the most ambitious dreams can fall by the wayside. As a Confidence and Life Coach, I have seen firsthand how motivation can make all the difference in the lives of people. In this article, I will share various techniques for getting and staying motivated, including both self-motivation and motivating others. Let’s dive in!

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

Recalling the Initial Purpose and Creating a Plan

Before we delve into specific motivation techniques, it’s essential to remember why you set your goals in the first place. What was the driving force behind your ambition? Recalling the initial purpose can reignite your passion and help you stay focused on the desired outcome. Once you have a clear understanding of your “why,” create a plan to achieve your goals. A well-thought-out plan can help you stay on track and maintain motivation throughout the journey.

Techniques for Self-Motivation

Physical Reminders

One simple yet effective way to stay motivated is to keep a physical reminder of your goal nearby. This could be a vision board, a written goal statement, or even a small object that symbolizes your aspirations. Having a tangible reminder can help keep your goals at the forefront of your mind and serve as a constant source of motivation.

Focusing on Happiness

To motivate yourself towards happiness, it’s important to remember that everything you do has meaning. Dwelling on mistakes or criticisms can be counterproductive, so make a conscious effort to let go of negative thoughts. Breathing deeply and practising mindfulness can help you stay focused on the positive aspects of your life.

Motivating Yourself Towards Health

When it comes to health, starting small with a realistic diet and fitness plan is key. This includes getting enough sleep, modifying your diet to include more fruits and vegetables, and exercising at least three times a week. De-stressing with a favourite activity, such as reading or taking a walk, can also help you stay motivated on your journey to better health.

Motivating Yourself Towards Productivity

To increase your productivity, remind yourself of the feeling of accomplishment that comes with completing a task. Focusing on the rewards at the finish line can also be helpful. Remember, the purpose of becoming more productive is to provide for your loved ones and spend more quality time with them. Keeping this in mind can help you stay motivated to work efficiently and effectively.

Techniques for Motivating Others

Positive Reinforcement

One of the most effective ways to motivate others is through positive reinforcement. This involves providing praise and recognition for a job well done. By acknowledging the hard work and dedication of your team members, you can inspire them to continue putting forth their best effort.

Asking for Help

Another way to motivate others is by asking for their help. When you request assistance, you show your team members that you value their input and expertise. This can make them feel needed and appreciated, which can lead to increased motivation and engagement.

Being Constructive Instead of Critical

When providing feedback, focus on being constructive rather than critical. By emphasizing areas for improvement rather than pointing out mistakes, you can help your team members feel more motivated to learn and grow.

Conclusion

By implementing these quick motivation techniques, success is within reach. Remember to recall your initial purpose, create a plan, and utilize both self-motivation and motivation of others to achieve your goals. With the right mindset and strategies, you can overcome any obstacles and reach new heights in your personal and professional life.

FAQs

How can I stay motivated when I encounter setbacks?
Overcoming setbacks is a natural part of the journey towards success. When faced with challenges, remind yourself of your initial purpose and focus on the progress you’ve made so far. Stay resilient and adapt your plan as needed.
How can I help a team member who is struggling with motivation?
Offer support and encouragement, listen to their concerns, and provide constructive feedback. Help them identify their strengths and areas for improvement, and work together to create a plan for success.
How can I maintain motivation in the long term?
Regularly reassess your goals and progress, and adjust your plan as needed. Celebrate your achievements and learn from your setbacks. Surround yourself with positive influences and maintain a growth mindset.
How can I balance multiple goals and stay motivated in all areas?
Prioritize your goals and create a plan that allows you to make progress in each area. Break larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and celebrate your achievements along the way.
How can I motivate a team that is resistant to change?
Communicate the reasons for the change and the benefits it will bring. Involve team members in the decision-making process and provide support and training as needed. Recognize and reward those who embrace the change and demonstrate adaptability.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 45-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

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Self-discipline mastery

2023-04-21 ~ adminlife

A powerful, but challenging to obtain attribute is self-discipline.

What is self-discipline? This is the ability to do what it takes to overcome any obstacles to reach your goals. You need to do this even when it is inconvenient or uncomfortable. You may have to say “no” to doing things you like, and saying “yes” to doing things that you hate. It becomes easier to stand up for yourself when you have self-discipline.

Many people want to be more self-disciplined but they won’t take the action needed to acquire it.

Take control of your success

There are many things in your life that can hold you back from being successful.

Some are external and there isn’t much you can do about those. But the ones that do the most damage are the internal ones.

Your self-talk and limiting beliefs are the two main things that can hold you back.

You can try to fix these by yourself or you can work with a Life Coach.

This short video talks to these points and offers you a solution.

https://vimeo.com/800646997

You can contact me to book the call mentioned in the video at

https://calendly.com/michael-coach/strategy-session

If you want to find out more about the Self-talk Program, and register before talking to me, you can do so at the website Self-talk Program

You start your day having good intentions but as challenges, stress and distractions arise you veer off course. You can put some strategies in-place that can help you to become a master of self-discipline to keep you on task.

Commit to the cause. You may be undisciplined but are you truly unhappy? Do you really want to improve this situation? People claim that they want to be more self-disciplined but truthfully, they really don’t mind being the way they are now.

You have to be honest with yourself. This may take a bit of time and effort to improve but it can be done if you definitely want it.
You succeed by staying committed to the cause

Write it all down. You clarify your thoughts when you write down your ideas and goals. Your mind can now come up with an action plan that you can stay with.

Look at all areas that you want to improve. This can be your finances, relationships, your carer or anything else in your life. Include the changes you want to make and what you believe is the best method to make those changes happen.

Get help from others. You have committed to make a change in your life, which is great, but don’t keep it a secret. Boost your self-discipline by telling other people about it.

In the beginning if you weren’t more self-disciplined, don’t be ashamed about it. You are taking positive action now, which is important. You will be supported and those you love will be there to celebrate your successes.
Getting back on track when you have a bad day will also be easier with your support group.

You have to believe in yourself. When you have faith in your ability to master self-discipline, you can do anything. You will have good and bad days, but you will be successful if you remain focused and committed to strengthening your own self-discipline.

Focus on the big picture and concentrate on, how when you stay committed, your body, mind and your energy will change for the better.

People who are self-disciplined are admired by many people. People that are self-disciplined can stay on schedule and never seem to lose their focus on the things that they want to accomplish. They make good, wise decisions and take the needed action to achieve their goals with ease.

When you do these actions daily, they become habits. If you want it, self-discipline can become your new way of life.

To work together to help you get moving in the right direction in your life, click on the blue button below to book a 45-minute, no obligation “Get to know you” call.

Going alone on creating a better life is difficult. Find out how working with a Life Coach can make the journey to success and a better life easier.

Book the call now.

To your success

Michael

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P.P.P.S. you know that living a life that is in balance is important. When you can balance your work, family, health, relationships, fitness and money, you feel better and can achieve your goals. You have the support of your family and friends which makes life worth living.

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New Habits to Keep You Motivated

2022-12-07 ~ adminlife

Your success or failure in life will be determined by your habits. Your habits will dictate a lot about your life. You can for instance, expect to have physical consequences if you eat too much and don’t exercise. You reach your fullest potential when you form good habits.

You can also stay motivated to reach your goals with these good habits you are developing.

If you would like to listen to these types of articles, you can visit my podcasts at
These are short, usually under 5 minutes but they can enable you to listen to confidence and motivation advice and tips while driving or relaxing.

Here are some good habits to develop.

Stay healthy and take care of yourself. When you are sick you know that it is difficult to be productive or even to keep a positive attitude. You must take care of your health. Your energy levels and your productivity are affected when you are overweight. When you develop healthy habits and go to the gym a bit more and modify your meal plan, this can help you to stay motivated longer because you are feeling better about your body. When you have improved health, you are in a win-win situation.

Review your reason why. You have an initial rush of enthusiasm for the project when you initially set the goal. Over time, this enthusiasm is reduced. You need to develop a habit that will let you review your goal to bring your motivation level higher. This could be setting up a monthly review of your goal.

Keep being proactive. You get a dopamine rush when you get the jump on things with the right habit. Your habit can be arriving early or letting you think ahead on a project. Keeping a list of what you need to do in a task will keep you ahead of the game and on task.

Watch the small stuff. If your goal is large, like losing a lot of weight, you can lose your motivation when it looks like your progress has stalled. By having small goals that you can celebrate, you can build up your motivation. For the weight loss goal, the smaller goals could be eating a little differently or taking the stairs.

Be around motivational people. Choose your company carefully so that this can be an easy habit to build. You could meet with these people regularly to keep you motivated and build up the relationships.

Staying on track to achieve your goals is easier with good habits. Motivation will be an automatic part of your life when you create the habit and do it often enough.

To work together to help you get moving in the right direction in your life, click on the blue button below to book a 45-minute, no obligation “Get to know you” call.

Going alone on creating a better life is difficult. Find out how working with a Life Coach can make the journey to success and a better life easier.

Book the call now.

To your success

Michael

P.S You can get a free for life subscription to my new biweekly newsletter: “Helping You to Live A Better Life” by visiting and registering at Newsletter.

This free offer expires on January 1^st 2023. After that there will be monthly subscription fee.

P.P.S. you know that living a life that is in balance is important. When you can balance your work, family, health, relationships, fitness and money, you feel better and can achieve your goals. You have the support of your family and friends which makes life worth living.

Check out my programs at Confidence and Life Coaching by clicking on the logo below:

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Stop Overthinking

2022-09-29 ~ adminlife

Do you regularly go over the same thought or situations in your own mind? You are not alone if you do this. You are part of the group of people who go through periods of overthinking. While you should think things through once in a while, doing it regularly can be counterproductive. It could even be harmful to you.

You can stop this practice of overthinking.

If you would like to listen to these types of articles, you can visit my podcasts at

These are short, usually under 5 minutes but they can enable you to listen to confidence and motivation advice and tips while driving or relaxing.

Recognize when you are doing it. You need to identify those thoughts or the situations that are triggering this overthinking. Before you can stop it, you need to know when it is happening.

For some, overthinking happens in specific situations. This could be being under pressure at work or it could be when dealing with a personal issue.
For other people it is more general as when they are feeling stressed or anxious
When you can identify what is causing you to overthink, you become more aware of it occurring and can start to prevent it.

Get your thoughts onto paper. When you are overthinking, writing down your thoughts is helpful. This clears your head and you can see the situation a lot more objectively.

You can also identify patterns, like negative thinking or self-doubt when you write things down.
Using a journal may be useful for keeping track of your thoughts and the progress you make if you overthink regularly.

Before addressing an overthinking situation, relax and calm down. When you have identified your overthinking triggers, you needed to take time to relax before you attempt to address them when they occur.

Thinking clearly allows you to make better decisions. You can use many different methods to relax, take a break and do something you enjoy for instance.
You can exercise or go for a walk in nature. Taking deep breaths or listening to calming music also works well. You could try aromatherapy or relax in a warm bath. Writing in a journal can also help.

You can see things more clearly by getting another perspective. Talking to someone else can be helpful when you start overthinking. You can gain a different perspective and see things more clearly.

The person you choose should be someone you trust and is willing to listen without judgment. You may find it helpful to talk to a professional like a therapist or counsellor. You can reduce the frequency of your overthinking by talking about it.
You can start the conversation just by explaining that you are struggling with overthinking and you want to talk about it. Just be honest about your feelings and what is going on internally.
Ask for their opinions and you need to listen to their reply without judgment.

Focus on the present not the past or future. You can concentrate on the everyday things which can make you more aware of your thoughts and feelings.

This can stop you from overthinking and see that your thoughts are just thoughts.

It is possible to break your overthinking habit. You can stop overthinking quickly by recognizing the thoughts and the situations that are the triggers. By talking with someone, writing things down and using the technique of elimination. You can break the overthinking cycle.

It may be helpful to keep a journal of your thoughts and the progress you make in a journal. Give yourself time to calm down after you have identified the ideas or situations that have triggered your overthinking before you address them. You will think a lot more clearly and make better decisions.

To work together to help you get moving in the right direction in your life, click on the blue button below to book a 15-minute, no obligation “Get to know you” call.

Going alone on creating a better life is difficult. Find out how working with a Life Coach can make the journey to success and a better life easier.

Book the call now.

To your success

Michael

P.S You can get a free for life subscription to my new biweekly newsletter: “Helping You to Live A Better Life” by visiting and registering at Newsletter.

This free offer expires on January 1^st 2023. After that there will be monthly subscription fee.

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