Category: motivation

Making Firm Decisions to Strengthen Leadership

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decision

 

Have you ever noticed how indecision can erode confidence — both yours and that of those who rely on you? Leadership inherently comes with responsibility, and making firm decisions is one of the most challenging yet vital aspects of wielding power effectively. While hesitation may seem like caution, it can often be misinterpreted as uncertainty, undermining your authority and shaking the trust others place in you.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

The reality of leadership is that it requires making choices, even in the face of incomplete information or potential pushback. Power and responsibility go hand in hand; with every decision comes the possibility of criticism. Embracing this fact is key to becoming a firm and decisive leader. When you are confident in your ability to make decisions, you send a clear message to your team: you trust yourself, and they can trust you too.

Being firm does not mean being inflexible or dismissive of others’ opinions. Rather, it involves listening thoughtfully, weighing options and then standing by your choice with confidence. Leaders who waver often create confusion, leaving their teams unsure of the direction forward. This can hinder progress and erode morale. Conversely, a firm decision — even if not universally popular — establishes clarity and demonstrates resolve.

One of the reasons firmness in decision-making is so crucial is that it aligns with accountability. When you take a stand, you take ownership of the outcomes. This sense of accountability fosters respect and trust among your peers and subordinates. It’s a powerful reminder that leadership is not about avoiding mistakes but about having the courage to act and adapt as needed.

However, firmness must be tempered with fairness and foresight. Consider how your decisions align with the values and goals of your organization or team. Are they consistent with the vision you’ve set? Are you taking into account the impact on others? When decisions are rooted in integrity and purpose, they gain credibility, even among dissenters.

Actionable Step:

Practice making firm decisions by starting small. Identify a low-stakes situation where hesitation has previously caused delays or confusion. Outline your options, choose one and implement it without second-guessing yourself. Afterward, reflect on the process and any feedback you receive. Gradually, apply this approach to more significant decisions. When you face criticism or resistance, remind yourself that firmness is not about perfection but about consistency and clarity.

It’s common to fear the potential backlash of unpopular decisions, but remember that trying to please everyone often leads to pleasing no one. Confidence in your choices comes from preparation. Equip yourself with the facts, consult with trusted advisors and always consider the broader picture. Then, act decisively and with conviction.

Leaders who exhibit firmness inspire others to follow their lead. By demonstrating the ability to make tough calls, you model the kind of resilience and clarity that teams thrive on. Even when mistakes happen, owning them and learning from them further solidifies your credibility.

Power is not just about making decisions — it’s about how you make them. A firm leader creates a sense of stability and direction, encouraging others to move forward with purpose and confidence. In the end, your ability to stand by your choices, even in challenging times, is a hallmark of a successful leader.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

 

 

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Overcoming Fear to Embrace New Experiences

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experiences

 

How often do you let fear hold you back from trying something new? Fear is a natural response to uncertainty, but when it dominates our choices, it stifles curiosity and limits growth. Whether it’s fear of failure, rejection or judgment, learning to move past these barriers is essential for unlocking new opportunities and discovering what you’re truly capable of.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

Fear often arises from our instinct to protect ourselves from harm, but in modern life, it’s more likely to signal discomfort than danger. While it’s important to respect legitimate concerns, many fears are rooted in self-doubt or worry about how others perceive us. These fears can prevent us from pursuing interests, speaking up or stepping outside our comfort zones, robbing us of valuable experiences.

The first step to overcoming fear is recognizing it for what it is. Instead of viewing fear as a stop sign, think of it as a guidepost indicating where growth can happen. Consider a time when you faced a fear and pushed through it. Perhaps you joined a group where you didn’t know anyone or tried an activity you weren’t sure you’d enjoy. The outcome likely brought a sense of accomplishment or a new perspective, proving that the risks were worth taking.

Letting go of the fear of judgment is particularly important. Worrying about what others think can paralyze you, but the truth is, most people are too focused on their own concerns to judge yours. Embracing this reality frees you to pursue your interests without unnecessary hesitation. Surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who encourage you to explore can also make a significant difference.

Actionable Step:

Identify one fear that’s been holding you back, and commit to taking a small step toward confronting it this week. Break the challenge into manageable parts. For instance, if you’re afraid of public speaking, start by practicing in front of a mirror, then move on to speaking in a small group of friends. Focus on what you learn from each step rather than any perceived imperfections.

Reframing failure as a learning experience is another powerful way to conquer fear. Every attempt, successful or not, offers lessons that can guide your future efforts. When you see setbacks as opportunities to grow rather than evidence of inadequacy, you become more resilient and willing to take risks.

Pushing past fear doesn’t mean recklessness; it means making thoughtful choices despite uncertainty. The more you practice confronting fear, the more confident and curious you become. Each step you take opens doors to new skills, connections and experiences, enriching your life in ways you might never have imagined.

Fear will always be a part of life, but it doesn’t have to control you. By facing it head-on and embracing the unknown, you allow curiosity and courage to lead the way. The rewards are worth it — a richer, more fulfilling life filled with endless possibilities.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

 

 

 

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Preparation Unlocks Confidence in Speaking Up

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preparation

 

Have you ever walked away from a conversation or meeting thinking, “I should have said something”? The regret of staying silent often stems from feeling unprepared to speak up at the moment. While spontaneity has its place, trying to “wing it” when it comes to advocating for yourself or your ideas can be daunting. Preparation is the key to breaking through this hesitation and ensuring your voice is heard.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

When you take the time to plan ahead, you remove much of the uncertainty that holds you back. Preparing your thoughts, organizing your ideas and anticipating potential questions or challenges gives you the confidence to engage effectively. Think about a situation where you needed to speak in a meeting. If you walked in with a clear list of points to discuss, you probably felt much more at ease compared to times when you had no structure or plan. Preparation not only helps clarify what you want to say but also ensures that your message is coherent and impactful.

The idea of being prepared doesn’t mean scripting your every word or overthinking the interaction. Instead, it’s about equipping yourself with a mental framework. This framework acts as a safety net, allowing you to navigate the conversation with a sense of control. Whether you’re addressing a group or having a one-on-one discussion, knowing your main talking points prevents you from getting sidetracked or flustered.

One of the most common pitfalls of speaking up without preparation is stumbling through your thoughts or losing focus mid-sentence. This can leave you feeling self-conscious and hesitant to try again. By rehearsing your points, you significantly reduce the chances of such missteps. Practising doesn’t need to be formal; simply talking through your ideas with a trusted friend, jotting down bullet points or rehearsing in front of a mirror can make a big difference.

Another advantage of preparation is that it allows you to anticipate potential counterarguments or questions. This foresight helps you remain calm and composed even when faced with pushback. For instance, if you’re pitching an idea at work, consider what concerns others might have. By preparing responses in advance, you demonstrate thoughtfulness and adaptability, making it easier for others to see the value in your perspective.

Actionable Step: Create a Pre-Speaking Checklist

Before entering any situation where you need to speak up, take a few minutes to organize your thoughts. Write down three key points you want to convey, and consider how each relates to the overall objective of the conversation or meeting. Ask yourself: What outcome am I hoping for? What objections or questions might arise? Preparing answers to these questions will give you the confidence to handle the discussion smoothly.

If the stakes are particularly high, such as presenting a project or negotiating terms, practice aloud. Hearing yourself articulate your thoughts can help identify areas where you might stumble. Additionally, pay attention to your tone and pacing; these elements contribute to how your message is received. If possible, record yourself and listen back to fine-tune your delivery.

While preparation is essential, it’s equally important to remain flexible. Conversations can be unpredictable, and clinging too tightly to a script might hinder your ability to respond naturally. Think of your preparation as a foundation — a solid starting point that allows you to adapt to the flow of the discussion while staying anchored in your message.

Being prepared also demonstrates respect for the people you’re speaking to. Whether it’s colleagues, friends or family, coming to the table with clear, thoughtful points shows that you value their time and engagement. This effort enhances your credibility and increases the likelihood that your input will be taken seriously.

The habit of preparing your thoughts before speaking up isn’t just a skill for important meetings or public speaking. It’s a mindset that can transform how you approach everyday interactions. Over time, this practice builds your confidence and helps you develop a more assertive communication style. You’ll find that even impromptu situations become less intimidating because you’ve trained yourself to think critically and organize your ideas quickly.

Learning to prepare effectively isn’t about eliminating fear — it’s about managing it. The nervous energy that comes with speaking up is natural and often signals that what you’re about to say matters. By channeling that energy into preparation, you turn anxiety into focus, ensuring that your voice contributes meaningfully to the conversation.

The effort you invest in being ready to speak up pays dividends beyond the immediate moment. It strengthens your ability to advocate for yourself, fosters mutual respect in your relationships and positions you as a thoughtful and reliable communicator. Over time, this confidence becomes second nature, empowering you to seize opportunities and make your voice heard when it counts.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

 

 

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Continuous Learning Is The Key to Unlocking Passion

~ adminlife

continuous learning

 

How much of your time do you dedicate to learning something new? It’s easy to fall into the rhythm of daily life, where routines dominate and growth feels like an afterthought. Yet, learning is one of the most powerful tools for discovering passion and creating a fulfilling life.

The pursuit of knowledge doesn’t end when school does. In fact, some of the most meaningful and transformative learning happens outside traditional educational settings. It’s in these moments of curiosity and exploration that we uncover new interests, develop unique skills and often stumble upon our deepest passions.

Before you can start to plan your success goals, there are many things that you need to understand before you can be sure that the goals you set are really the ones you want.

One of those things is to determine if there are any Limiting Beliefs that can stop you from actually achieving those goals.

I have a self-study Limiting Belief Program that you can go through to determine what your Limiting Beliefs are and how you can remove them.

You can read more and register for the program at Limiting Beliefs Program on my Confidence and Life Coaching website.

Start your journey on your path to success by identifying and removing your Limiting Beliefs so that you make the journey a lot easier.

You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

Consider this: the world is constantly evolving. Entire industries emerge, technologies advance and ways of thinking adapt. By committing to lifelong learning, you not only keep pace with these changes but also open yourself to new opportunities that might align with your true calling.

There’s a misconception that learning is a formal process requiring textbooks, exams and classrooms. While those can be valuable, learning often happens in everyday situations. It might involve picking up a book about a subject you’ve always been curious about, attending a workshop or shadowing a colleague in a different department. Each new skill or perspective you gain broadens your horizons and reveals possibilities you may never have considered.

The beauty of learning is its ability to surprise you. Maybe you’ve always worked in finance but decide to take a graphic design course out of sheer curiosity. That class could ignite a passion you didn’t know you had, ultimately leading to a career or side project that brings you immense joy. The act of learning becomes a journey of self-discovery.

One of the most effective ways to integrate learning into your life is by staying curious. Curiosity keeps your mind active and engaged, driving you to ask questions and seek answers. What are the skills you’ve always wanted to acquire? Are there hobbies or topics that intrigue you? Let your curiosity guide you toward areas that challenge and excite you.

The workplace can be an ideal environment for expanding your knowledge. Many companies encourage cross-department collaboration or offer training programs to help employees grow. If this isn’t available, take the initiative. Approach a coworker and ask if they can teach you about their role or invite you to join a project. Learning about different aspects of your industry can reveal career paths you hadn’t previously considered.

Technology has made learning more accessible than ever. Online platforms like Coursera, Khan Academy and LinkedIn Learning offer courses on virtually any subject, often for free or at low cost. Podcasts, webinars and even YouTube tutorials can be valuable resources for acquiring new skills. Whether you’re learning to code, bake or play an instrument, these tools put a wealth of knowledge at your fingertips.

It’s equally important to approach learning with the right mindset. Adopt a growth-oriented attitude that embraces mistakes as part of the process. Fear of failure often holds people back from trying new things, but when you view challenges as opportunities to improve, the pressure to be perfect fades away.

Actionable Step:

Dedicate at least 30 minutes each day to learning something new. This could be reading an article, watching a tutorial or practising a skill. Keep a journal to track what you’ve learned and reflect on how it has influenced your perspective or sparked new ideas.

As you make learning a habit, you’ll begin to see connections between seemingly unrelated topics. These connections can lead to creative breakthroughs or entirely new passions. The act of continuous learning doesn’t just expand your knowledge; it also builds confidence. Every new skill you acquire is a reminder of your capability and potential.

Over time, this commitment to learning becomes a core part of who you are. It fosters adaptability, resilience and a deeper understanding of the world. But perhaps most importantly, it brings you closer to discovering what truly excites and fulfills you.

The path to passion isn’t always a straight line. It’s filled with detours, experiments and unexpected discoveries. By embracing the mindset of a lifelong learner, you ensure that you’re always moving forward, exploring new possibilities and unlocking the doors to your potential.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Working together can help you overcome personal and professional barriers, ensuring you reach your highest potential.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

P.P.P.S. You can download a free PDF containing five articles on Limiting Beliefs and how to overcome them and achieve things in your career and personal life. 

The PDF can be downloaded here (and you don’t have to register or provide an email address) Limiting Beliefs Download

Download the file and go over the other material that you can find on the Confidence and Life Coaching website.

P.P.P.P.S. If you are ready to move even further into the process of Identifying and removing and replacing your Limiting Beliefs, you should consider my short Limiting Belief’s Coaching Program.

 

 

 

 

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Mastering the Details for Confident Decision-Making

~ adminlife

decision making

 

Have you ever faced a situation where a lack of information led to a poor outcome? The difference between a hasty decision and an informed one often lies in the details. Leadership demands precision, and gathering all the facts before making a choice is one of the most effective ways to lead with confidence and clarity.

Confidence in your abilities to go after your goals can sometimes be difficult to find or keep.

It can sometimes take time to discover the confidence you have inside you. This can be especially true if you are trying something new.

I have a program that can help you to discover what is holding you back from achieving your goals as well as help you set an attainable goal related to where you are in your life and where you are trying to be.

This program also works with you to build up your confidence in being able to reach your goal.

You can find out more about this program at Confidology, a funny name but a serious program.

You can contact me to talk about this or any other aspect of confidence and success at michael@coachmichaelw.com

Visit the site and read through the program description.

If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

Making decisions without understanding the full picture is like navigating in the dark. It’s easy to stumble or make avoidable errors. Leaders who take the time to collect detailed information ensure their choices are rooted in reality rather than assumptions. This approach minimizes risks and demonstrates a commitment to thoughtful decision-making.

Knowing the details often requires asking questions — sometimes tough ones. This process can feel uncomfortable, particularly when the answers challenge your expectations or assumptions. However, seeking the truth is far more valuable than operating on incomplete or inaccurate information. Leaders who aren’t afraid to dig deep show their team that they value accuracy and accountability over convenience.

Thoroughly understanding a situation not only equips you to make better decisions but also strengthens your ability to justify those decisions to others. When your team sees that your choices are based on solid information, they are more likely to trust your judgment and rally behind your vision.

Being detail-oriented is not about micromanaging. It’s about ensuring that you have all the pieces of the puzzle before you take action. This often involves consulting a range of sources, from data reports and stakeholder insights to feedback from team members. Leaders who invest time in this process avoid the pitfalls of one-sided perspectives, enabling them to see the bigger picture while addressing specific nuances.

Leadership also requires you to balance the need for information with the urgency of decision-making. While it’s important to gather details, there’s a point where overanalyzing can lead to delays. Knowing when you have enough information to act is a skill that develops with experience.

Building a habit of learning all the details also improves your adaptability. The more informed you are, the more equipped you’ll be to adjust when unexpected changes arise. Leaders who are well-prepared can pivot with confidence, knowing that their decisions are grounded in a comprehensive understanding of the situation.

One of the challenges in gathering details is overcoming resistance. Not everyone is forthcoming with information, particularly in high-pressure environments. This is where strong communication skills come into play. Approach your inquiries with openness and respect, emphasizing that your goal is to make the best decision for the team or organization. When people feel heard and respected, they are more likely to share valuable insights.

Being thorough also means being proactive about identifying potential blind spots. No matter how diligent you are, it’s impossible to account for every variable. This is why seeking input from diverse perspectives is so crucial. By engaging with people who have different expertise or viewpoints, you can uncover details that you might have otherwise overlooked.

Actionable Step:

A common pitfall in gathering details is relying too heavily on one source of information. To avoid this, make it a practice to triangulate your data. For any significant decision, aim to consult at least three different sources or perspectives. This might include speaking with team members, reviewing data reports and seeking input from external advisors. This approach ensures that your decisions are not only well-informed but also balanced, reducing the risk of bias or oversight.

When you prioritize understanding the details, you enhance your ability to lead with clarity and purpose. Your team will respect your diligence, and your decisions will reflect a level of thoughtfulness that inspires confidence. Leadership is not about having all the answers upfront but about being willing to ask the right questions and seek the necessary information.

The path to effective decision-making lies in preparation and curiosity. By committing to learning all the details, you position yourself as a leader who values accuracy, accountability and collaboration. These qualities not only help you navigate complex challenges but also set a standard for your team to emulate.

To talk about any aspect of success or working with a Life Coach to help you to achieve success, you can book a 30-minute call by clicking on the blue button below.

Book the call now button

Don’t try to do all of this by yourself, ask and receive the guidance that can get you moving towards your own success.

Nothing happens until action is taken.

To your success.

Michael

Michael W

 

 

 

 

P.S Don’t forget to visit Confidology to learn more about the program. If you are not ready to commit to a full program, I have a self-paced course on Udemy that may be of interest. You can find out about the course and register at Confidence and Motivation Development and Maintenance

P.P.S if you want to find out more about my programs just check out the site Confidence and Life Coaching

P.P.P.S. If you enjoy reading these articles on my blog, I have more books that have more of this type of information that you can find out more about at Books to Read. You can buy these ebooks at many on-line book stores. The links to the bookstores are at the link above.

If you have an Amazon Kindle account, there are different books at Amazon – Michael W (author)

 

 

 

 

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